I have a very busy schedule right now... next week FH and I have an appt on tues eve and one on wed eve to possibly book our photographer and videogragher.... He has known this for two weeks! He just calls me and says that he just realized he has all of next week off and he would rather go to PA and can I change our appts! When I try to explain why it will be hard for me he then says that we dont have to meet with them we can can just send them checks in the mail : 'whats the difference?' Really! Whats the difference? And now he is mad at me bc he says im ruining his week off (that I knew nothing about until ten min ago)! The worst part is that I actually feel guilty! Ugh!!!!
regy_k
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I say go by urself and u will get more done. men just dont get it, they always for the last possible moment to notify/plan, just the way they are unfortunately. go by urself, he will be happy on his all of a sudden week off, and u will get more out of these apptmnts w/o him acting as if he was forced to come.
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I am really sorry- I know that is not what you need right now. But maybe you should get away with him a bit next week. I know it is annoying- Men never pay attention! The appointment's are very important- but the fight over it isn't worth it.
yeah men sometimes they just don't get how important these things are..
MarjorieFrank
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Sorry
slyman1101
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Posted by regy_k
I say go by urself and u will get more done. men just dont get it, they always for the last possible moment to notify/plan, just the way they are unfortunately. go by urself, he will be happy on his all of a sudden week off, and u will get more out of these apptmnts w/o him acting as if he was forced to come.
i agree- you will get what you want and so will he. pick your battles
happychelle
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I'm sorry- my FH makes me really mad too- we had WWIII last nite actually-but things always work out and then making up is the best part!! :)
JAAMS
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i'm sorry
Lsorrent
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Just go by yourself or with one of your GM's then. My FH didn't understand the importance of picking a good photographer/videographer either. Originally he didn't even want video at all, and just told me 'pictures are pictures....they're all the same.'
Sorry you're having a tough time with him. But then I highly recommend to not even think of taking him to florists
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aw sorry chickie, my fh was kinda the same way sometimes, in the end though i just went by myself to all the appointment narrowed it down to like 2 that i really liked and showed him their work online if available or made another appointment for him to see, and it kinda worked out that way and was actually a little easier, i didnt feel like i was pulling teeth for each appointment
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I'm sorry. If you don't mind going alone, you can just go see them and then discuss with him and then make another appointment with the one you like so you can go with him then.
Spring143
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if hes like this now imagine what hes going to be like after like 2 meetings. i go with my mom and even shes getting like ok enough. where were you going to look? maybe I can help you out
