As much as FH thinks this site is silly (sorry ladies, he is strange at times) He wants me to ask you girl for advice:
His best man is a twin and he asked the twin to be a GM over FB (LOL). Neither the BM nor the GM (twin) are being a good friend right now to him. He wont change the BM but he wants to kick out the twin GM. He doesn't know how to go about it. Please help him. I don't sugar coat things and I told him to tell him shape up or ship out !!!!
Please find more of PC way for him to do so
TIA
Erin and Chris
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I am really sorry, but I don't think he should kick out the twin... even if he is being difficult or a bad friend. Don't kick him out....whatever fight or arguement they are having now, that will be eventually solved but the twin will never forget him getting kicked out of his brothers wedding. I would suggest just don't envolve him, in exciting wedding plans and just try to give eachother space. But once you kick the brother out it will be very hard to have a friendship with him let alone a brotherhood. Think really hard about this before you do it.
Kuklitsa143
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I think i may have wrote that wrong or you read it wrong. FH best man has a twin and the twin is a groomsman. Groomsman and FH aren't not brothers.
but thanks for replying
roblisa09
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You know I'm straight forward too and even though its hard I think that he should be honest and true about the whole thing. This is HIS wedding too and he shouldn't have to keep anyone in the BP if he doesn't want them to just to please others. He need to be happy and at peace with his decision and if right now that's how he's feeling then he should go with it how he's feeling and kick him out!
mara1017
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I think that he should be honest with the guy. But I think he should remember that it is very possible that his BM will say that if my twin is not in the wedding party I am not.
I am a true believer in your wedding is one of the few times in your life that you are able to be alittle selfish.
LindsaylovesJustin
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Guys are not 'talkers' id wait a while longer before making the decision, you still havw several months and alot could change in that time.
pixietina
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Posted by LindsaylovesJustin
Guys are not 'talkers' id wait a while longer before making the decision, you still havw several months and alot could change in that time.
ITA. Wait it out since there is plenty of time until your wedding. Alot could change.
