I don't know why I am so bent out of shape about this but today we got our rough draft of our ceremony emailed to us and I thought it was a really good start and was so excited. Well FH just said he thought it sounded cheesy/corny and to mushy. If anything I think it verges on not being mushy at all in my opinion. He says that maybe it's just because it is out of context(reading it online as opposed to during the real deal) which , I can see his point, but I guess I mean come on it's a wedding for god's sake it is suppose to talk about love and be a little bit mushy right? It's not like we are ordering food at a take out with no emotion. Blah I'm sure it's just nothing but sometimes I wish guys were just a little more like girls. What do you think? Sorry it's so long just had to rant a little bit, feeling insecure.
ChristineAaron08
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im sorry..i think that most guys are just not good at emotions or try to hide them for some odd reason
I sure he will be fine at the actual ceremony
mtegay
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Yeah, hopefully he will be... I guess I just wanted a little more excitement or something from him, he was just totally unemotional about it
mishjohn
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please, my FH wants a wham bam, thank you mam ceremony.....and i am like no!!!! it is our wedding and this is the day we can be mushy and corny!!
mRm2008
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If its just a rough draft of it, why don't you try asking for some input from him, concerning what is said. Maybe he won't think its entirely mushy if he is involved in the 'editing' process
roan126
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Yeah, one thing I've learned is that guys are just programmed differently. Doesnt mean he loves you any less. I do sometimes wish that FH would be more 'emotional' about things, but I have come to accept that he's just not.
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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guys are def programmed differently ignore him...half of the stuff wedding relating he tells me sounds 'gay' ...i tell him to just get over it...its a wedding and its supposed to be lovey dovey stuff
anamaree77
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He is just being a Man, they suck, don't sweat it!! Guys just don't think like girls.
mtegay
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Hehehe thanks for the support ladies. I knew if anyone understood it would be you guys! Silly boys
bonbabs
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I hear ya! I had the same situation. He said it was corny and mushy. . I told him it's a wedding! You don't think standing in front of family and friends proclaiming your love for each other until you die ISN'T CORNY? It's SUPPOSED to BE! Tell him to get over it and deal with it. I'm adding to my vows, to love, honor and TORTURE him all the days of of my life. That will teach him.
MrsK2008
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In all of our relationahips we have to find what works for us as individuals. I know so many couples whose lives i do not envy and would never tolerate.
If this is how your FH behaves normally, I wouldn't expect an about face just because you are getting married.
Change takes effort, understanding, patience and time.
