So FH just called me telling me he wants to go on his bachelor party the weekend before the wedding (he wants to go the 17-18th, and we are getting married the 23rd. Normally this wouldnt bother me, but he is going away for the ENTIRE weekend for his bachelor party. Isn't that cutting it a little too close?? I am assuming we are going to have to finalize details that weekend, make final payments, do last minute preparations.....right??? I told him he cant go that weekend due to these reasons and he said we'd talk about it later.
Does it matter if he goes away for that weekend?? Am I being unreasonable??
Just to add: I told him he could ANY other weekend just not THAT weekend.
Lindsay14
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I personally don't think it should be a problem but I guess it would depend on what all you have left to do. Is he really helping with everything or just tagging along for moral support?? I know my FH is just tagging along but I don't mind if he can't come I take my MOH with me since my mom lives in IL
just my two cents
pjc92980
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ITA with you!!!
When FH was planning his i told him it couldnt be 2 weeks before the wedding!!! They are going to deleware for 4 days and who knows what is going to come up last minute. I dont want to be stressing.
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Posted by Lindsay14
I personally don't think it should be a problem but I guess it would depend on what all you have left to do. Is he really helping with everything or just tagging along for moral support?? I know my FH is just tagging along but I don't mind if he can't come I take my MOH with me since my mom lives in IL
just my two cents
He's involved in everything except my dress and hair/makeup stuff. He actually gets upset if I mention me taking one of my MOHs instead of him with me to do things for the wedding.
Lindsay14
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That's awesome!!! I kinda wish my FH was like that...I guess I'm kinda suprised he wants to go on his bach party then.
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ITA with you!!!
When FH was planning his i told him it couldnt be 2 weeks before the wedding!!! They are going to deleware for 4 days and who knows what is going to come up last minute. I dont want to be stressing.
Exactly!! I have enough to stress about!!
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That's awesome!!! I kinda wish my FH was like that...I guess I'm kinda suprised he wants to go on his bach party then.
I think its bc thats the only weekend his brother/BM can get off. Thats why I feel bad telling him he cant but also I just feel like its too close to the wedding.
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,...... I will not like if FH goes away for a WHOLE WEEK, let along a Week before OUR wedding...
So I will be Pissed n i would NOT want him to go on that week...
njoseph8
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my DH went away for the weekend the week before the wedding and there were no problems
jovigirl414
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FH and I are both doing our Bparties the last weekend before our wedding. I'm really not concerned over it ...
leesah85
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i told my FH it had to be at least 3 weeks before the wedding
our RD is the friday before our wedding (whole week before) and i figured the week before that we'd have a lot of loose ends to tie up
IMO havnig it the week before is cutting too close - plus, dont you want to have your parties the same weekend so your not apart for two weekends?
my two cents
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I dont think is a problem or big deal at all. FH ended up having his bachelor party the same weekend . We got married on a Sunday and he had his party that Friday.
I also had mine the weekend before. It worked out perfect for us.
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I personally would not want my FI to do it that close, I know how him and his friends get and I would be stressed out the whole weekend! I think it depends on how he is and what kind of weekend it's going to be. Im sure if you scheduled things you could make it so he's not missing all the last minute stuff. I know my FI would be hungover for 3 days afterwards so I would say a big fat no if it was me.
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it depends. we had our respective bachelor parties 4 weeks 4 weeks bfore the wedding. we would never have done it the weekend before because we knewwe would have too many looe ends, and we did. that weekend before we were both running arund like chickens with our heads cut off.
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My FH is going to AC the weekend before. At first I wasn't a fan but I so ahead on things right now that I'd rather him spend some time with his boys than with me and wedding stuff. Also, since all of his friends are OOT, including his brother (BM), it made more sense. They're planning to chill and probably watch a UFC fight if its on lol
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I kind of agree with you, but if he really isn't involved n making the payments, etc, I don't see why it is a huge deal
Can they just go away for Friday night if it is the weekend before the wedding? Or just Saturday night?
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I am doing mine the weekend before- my sister will be in from California - but I'm also taking off the whole week before during and after my wedding...I wouldn't stress it especially since it's the only time his brother can do it
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I personally don't think it's a big deal. If last minute things come up I'd just bring along my mom MOH or fmil
