FH thinks I don't love him

Last night, FH was annoying me. It really wasn't a big deal though.

So he tells me that he thinks I don't love him. I HAVE told him that I've had cold feet but I never, ever said I don't love him. FH is under a lot of stress and on a short fuse, I'm concerned about money and student loans and together, well...I don't know.

I kept telling him that if I didn't love him, I would have been long gone. But he's concerned because I had told him I have cold feet.

apparently now he can't remember saying that (we were falling asleep when it was said) but I can't stop thinking about it. What do I do?

Just reassure him you love hima nd cant wait to marry him and be with him.

It's weird my FI has been telling me the same thing, I dont know where it came from. Partly becuase I been on the PC alot and so he feels neglected. I know you are stressed but I would just show him some lovin.

most people experience some sort of cold feet and the financial stress life can put on us doesn't make that any easier. just talk it out with him and explain that sometimes the stress of life clouds your judgment and makes you feel less thrilled about things that ordinarily make you ecstatic. i get like that about concerts.......i am sooooo excited to go and then when we get there, i am so freaked by all the people, the late hours that i appear to be miserable....but deep down, i am truly happy to be there, but what comes out (i stand there like a statue and would rather sit down and relax than jumping up and down screaming and dancing) isn't that expression.

we also have a rule, after 10pm, no serious talking since we are both tired, you forget what was and wasn't said and you might say the wrong thing and not mean to.