FH has been out of work since June. I know this is hard for him. But I work soooo many hours and he promised to do all the cleaning and cooking. About a month ago my mom asked him to make a photo album for her. Today I asked him how much is done and he said 6 pages. He hasn't cleaned in forever, I had to remind him to take out the garbage everyday this week. I am at my end. He told me to make him a schedule. You are 32 years old make your own schedule!
Ahhh Thanks girls! Vent over!
doreen82
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Oh my.....you gotta talk to him....or do what he says...make a schedule....he may surprise you hun!!!
Yankees2323
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awww im sorry hun!!! hopefully he will wake up and realize you need some help around the house.. i get fustrated when fh is home and i go out and come back to a **** load of dishes it pisses me off beyond belief
START THROWING ALL HIS DIRTY CLOTHES OUT ON TO THE LAWN HE'LL START GETTING THE POINT...
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Posted by StaceYums81
START THROWING ALL HIS DIRTY CLOTHES OUT ON TO THE LAWN HE'LL START GETTING THE POINT...
lmfao im gonna try this one when fh leaves the dishes in the sink and say stacey told me too!!
JoanneAndJustin
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You're a teacher... make the schedule.
I know it's aggravating and you think he's grown enough to handle it on his own... but don't let him give you more excuses. You're right, the LEAST he can do it help out around the house if he isn't working. I'd expect to eat off my floors if FH wasn't working. Tell him you'll do the work outside the house with no complaint if he does the work INSIDE the house with no complaint.
amandah75
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we share the same men. DH has been out of work since march and i have to remind him to take out the garbage and i come home to a dirty house. it's so frustrating! i feel for you girl.
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I know how you feel, sista!!!! When my FH was out of work, I was sooo envious that I couldnt be home with him and then soo mad when nothing was done! Schedules work though! I am a teacher, so making picture schedules is my JOB - A schedule will def help keep him on track!!!
mbscheer
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mbscheer
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I know how you feel, sista!!!! When my FH was out of work, I was sooo envious that I couldnt be home with him and then soo mad when nothing was done! Schedules work though! I am a teacher, so making picture schedules is my JOB - A schedule will def help keep him on track!!!
Do you use Boardmaker??? Literally I came home and printed one up. I got him to propose using one...I guess this could work!!
mbscheer
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we share the same men. DH has been out of work since march and i have to remind him to take out the garbage and i come home to a dirty house. it's so frustrating! i feel for you girl.
Thanks Amanda!! I can print you a copy of my schedule if you want to borrow
