First off one of his friends RSVP that he wasn't bringing a guest to the wedding. I asked him again last weekend if he was bringing a guest... he said no... ok so i spent the whole weekend doing the chocolates for the pace cards and made exactly enough for all my guest and did all the tables. His friends fit exactly 2 tables. Now FH calls me to say that his friend wants to bring his girl... i said no cause it's too late and everything is done! so he tells him he can bring her! Im so mad cause there is no favors for her, not place card, and where is she going to sit? They said no more then 10 at a table. This just gets me so mad cause everything is planned out... I don't even like the girl!
Next I planned my bachlorette party for this thursday 2 weeks ago. FH brothers FW is in the bridal party and she was going to come out with us... now @ the last minute they decide to do his Bachlor party the same night and she can't go cause she doesn't have a babysitter! This gets me really upset cause this like messes everything up... I really wanted her to go!
sorry so long i needed to vent!
PreshusSmurf
Posted:
Member since
Re: FH Vent (long)
Posted by butapecan3
So the wedding is this Sat:
First off one of his friends RSVP that he wasn't bringing a guest to the wedding. I asked him again last weekend if he was bringing a guest... he said no... ok so i spent the whole weekend doing the chocolates for the pace cards and made exactly enough for all my guest and did all the tables. His friends fit exactly 2 tables. Now FH calls me to say that his friend wants to bring his girl... i said no cause it's too late and everything is done! so he tells him he can bring her! Im so mad cause there is no favors for her, not place card, and where is she going to sit? They said no more then 10 at a table. This just gets me so mad cause everything is planned out... I don't even like the girl!
Next I planned my bachlorette party for this thursday 2 weeks ago. FH brothers FW is in the bridal party and she was going to come out with us... now @ the last minute they decide to do his Bachlor party the same night and she can't go cause she doesn't have a babysitter! This gets me really upset cause this like messes everything up... I really wanted her to go!
sorry so long i needed to vent!
If FH's parents live nearby, couldn't they babysit for their grandchild so you guys can go out for your Bachelor/Bachelorette parties????
BlushingBride714
Posted:
Member since
Re: FH Vent (long)
Ugh, men are so insensitive when it comes to things like seating charts and place cards! They just don't get it - they think it's not a big deal. So frustrating! Honestly, if it were me, I would stick FH's friend and his girl at the old farts table! That's what they get for not getting their act together in time! Don't stress about it - it will all work it self out and you are going to have a beautiful wedding.
milana
Posted:
Member since
Re: FH Vent (long)
thats so annoying! I know how you feel, you make the seating arrangements and everyone fits at a table perfectly and when someone comes along and messes it all up it just totally sux!!!
diva7531
Posted:
Member since
Re: FH Vent (long)
So sorry this is happening to you! It will all work out, even tho right now it doesn't seem like it. I hope a babysitter comes thru for your FSIL and she can come with you.