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FH VENT!!! *UPDATE

ant n tilde Posted:

FH VENT!!! *UPDATE

UPDATE:

I always post the bad stuff but I never post the good stuff! LOL so on Sunday night FH came to pick me up and I told him to come in to see what my dad did in the apartment. He walked in and saw the TV and SERIOUSLY almost ripped the plug out of the wall, picked it up and started carrying it out. I was like 'wait it is for HERE for US you can't take it'

Yeah right - I thought he was going to cry! He was so giddy he couldn't even get it back into the box, he took it home and set it up THEN he played with it for HOURS - i mean its a TV what can you do with it? He was playing with all the settings and stuff it was hysterical

His parents got him this sick DVD home entertainment system from Philips and his brother got him the surround sound.

He was in a MUCH better mood since he hadn't gotten ANY gifts on Saturday ( they thought THEIR gifts would reveal what MY gift was so they gave him lame gifts like underwear and stuff to open for his birthday )

and he LOVES his TV - LOL- i am so naive thinking that he would keep it in the apartment UNTOUCHED for three months!

Thanks for all your support girls






Okay FH has been teasing me about missing his birthday yesterday bc of my best friend's bachelorette party. . . but really he hates birthdays and had work until 10PM so I knew he was just teasing or whatever.

So to make him smile I sent him this thing from 1800flowers. . . it was a teddy bear with three balloons on it - i thought it would make him laugh.

Well, he didn't tell me he got it until I asked and then he said:

'Why did you do that? It was so embarassing and such a stupid idea - did you think I would like it?'

UM douchebag - I knew you wouldnt write about it in your diary but i THOUGHT that you would kind of chuckle and then stick it somewhere.

So I started crying and he was like 'oh next time I guess I will just lie' and THEN he does this over the top fake gee golly i love it routine.



I DONT EVEN WANT TO GIVE HIM HIS REAL GIFT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



and we havent mentioned the 'balloon incident since'
yelley77 Posted:

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meanie
SparklingBride10 Posted:

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I'm sorry that happened to you,
davenjess Posted:

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how rude!!!!

i'm sorry! He's probably just had a long weekend & is PMS'ing....

SFBride2Be Posted:

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oh man - im so sorry

boys can be so frustrating sometimes
ant n tilde Posted:

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anyone want a 37' LCD flat screen TV? I feel like throwing out the window LOL I should take a picture of it all set up with the bow and then take one of me drop kicking it out of the window and send them to his phone.
bluegreen08 Posted:

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anyone want a 37' LCD flat screen TV? I feel like throwing out the window LOL I should take a picture of it all set up with the bow and then take one of me drop kicking it out of the window and send them to his phone.



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JimmysPants Posted:

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Oh my!!! I would be fuming too! Honestly I thiink I would give my FH the silent treatment for at least a day. sorry hun.
Snowflake08 Posted:

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ugh, i hate when FH acts like that
i call him 'nasty pants'
Espo22 Posted:

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Im so sorry tilde ... his attitude reminds me of how us girls act when we're bitter but don't want to say why...he probably is upset about last night but doesn't want to admit it and he probably thinks the flowers are his ONLY gift and maybe he expected more lol.

Give him the gift soon so he can feel stupid when he sees it. Just be like here is another stupid and silly gift for you and then just walk away.
tlp123 Posted:

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I am sorry
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Im so sorry tilde ... his attitude reminds me of how us girls act when we're bitter but don't want to say why...he probably is upset about last night but doesn't want to admit it and he probably thinks the flowers are his ONLY gift and maybe he expected more lol.

Give him the gift soon so he can feel stupid when he sees it. Just be like here is another stupid and silly gift for you and then just walk away.



yeah i bet he IS a little upset about me missing his birthday - especially since I am a big baby when it comes to my birthday ( He calls it Matilde's Birthday Week - LOL bc I try to get my way bc it is 'the Tuesday before my birthday' etc. )
But I wish he could just say 'i am sad you missed my birthday but obviously i understand'

you are allowed to be sad about stuff that isnt rational!! lol it happens to me all the time.

and you are right - i cant wait to show him his 'stupid' gift

stupid gift for a stupid head

Thanks for listening girls
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Im so sorry tilde ... his attitude reminds me of how us girls act when we're bitter but don't want to say why...he probably is upset about last night but doesn't want to admit it and he probably thinks the flowers are his ONLY gift and maybe he expected more lol.

Give him the gift soon so he can feel stupid when he sees it. Just be like here is another stupid and silly gift for you and then just walk away.



yeah i bet he IS a little upset about me missing his birthday - especially since I am a big baby when it comes to my birthday ( He calls it Matilde's Birthday Week - LOL bc I try to get my way bc it is 'the Tuesday before my birthday' etc. )
But I wish he could just say 'i am sad you missed my birthday but obviously i understand'

you are allowed to be sad about stuff that isnt rational!! lol it happens to me all the time.

and you are right - i cant wait to show him his 'stupid' gift

stupid gift for a stupid head

Thanks for listening girls



guys are different, they dont want to always say something like that bothers them...i do the same alot too though, ill be mad about something but dont want to say what im really mad at and ill get nasty about other things lol, then yeah i eventually do say what really is bothering me lol. He just might feel like maybe hes being silly about it but he cant help how he feels, he probably does understand going out for your friends bp so thats why its hard for him to say what is really bothering him.

HAHAHAHAHA yeah go do it soon, this way you can make him eat his words
davenjess Posted:

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you should totally take a pic of the original gift on top of the TV & send it to his phone....maybe this is better weenis??

Totally what i'd do!!!
angl2001 Posted:

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return it and buy yourself something lol sorry he acted like that men can be a drag sometimes!! lol

JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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what a jerkface!!

sorry, that stinks!! boys are dumb sometimes. hope you feel better!

tlp123 Posted:

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yeah i bet he IS a little upset about me missing his birthday - especially since I am a big baby when it comes to my birthday ( He calls it Matilde's Birthday Week - LOL bc I try to get my way bc it is 'the Tuesday before my birthday' etc. )
But I wish he could just say 'i am sad you missed my birthday but obviously i understand'

you are allowed to be sad about stuff that isnt rational!! lol it happens to me all the time.

and you are right - i cant wait to show him his 'stupid' gift

stupid gift for a stupid head

Thanks for listening girls



Guys can be dumb about things like this, but maybe when the angry and hurt feelings have cooled down a little, you can talk to him directly and tell him how you feel? Or ask him directly why he spoke to you that way and if something else is bothering him? Sometimes, I try to talk to my FH without being emotional, but I let him know how important it is that we sort this out or else it snowballs into a big fight. When I keep a cool head, he doesn't have anyone to fight with b/c I will not fight back, so he has no choice but to talk rationally.
Mici n KC Posted:

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Tell him he just ruined the surprise and he's a jerk!

Butterfly123 Posted:

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OMG How rude! I wouldnt wanna give him his real gift either! And I hate the, 'NEXT TIME ILL LIE TO YOU' Shpeeaal~!!!

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