FH wants me to ask you guys...

Original post by Pinkchick913

Jan 10, 2011 10:29 PM

FH wants to know how your guys asked their guys to be in the bridal party.

Considering we are girls and we like to do cutesy things he wanted me to ask you guys how your FH's have asked their groomesmen to be in your bridal party.

Did he ask them to dinner or drinks?

TIA

I figured I could probably get more answers over here since you guys are closer to getting married.

Richiesgirl Posted: Jan 11, 2011 08:46 AM

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he TOLD them lol

Joeswifey2B Posted: Jan 11, 2011 08:50 AM

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FH is a graphic designer so he made post cards with a picture of him and who ever he asked.. alot of people he has picture from when they were little.. alot of funny pictures and then on the card it said something asking them.. it wasnt girly looking at all .. all the guys freaked when they pulled out these funny pictures from the past.. and it showed just how long they really know each other. They were handed out at the engagement party also.

chreesta Posted: Jan 11, 2011 08:51 AM

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It's just my brother, his brother, his best friend (whom we see every weekend), and his little cousin.

They all know, and I don't think he asked any of them.

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Jan 11, 2011 08:52 AM

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He asked them all in person but nothing special lol Just kinda flat out did it

Melissa1012 Posted: Jan 11, 2011 09:08 AM

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FH and I took our best man to dinner and asked him there. The rest of the guys were asked at the engagement party.

rmiller2255 Posted: Jan 11, 2011 09:16 AM

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We just happened to be out to dinner with three of the guys individually and he just asked them. He said that he felt like he as asking them out on a date...lol

The other GM lives in Denver so he called and asked and made sure it was ok for him to come out for the Bachelor party and the wedding...

Moonmist09 Posted: Jan 11, 2011 09:54 AM

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well, all of the guys in our bridal party are the husbands of our BM and all of our BM are our sisters (and one cousin)
so , this is so bad, but he never actually asked them, he just assumed that they would realize they would be in the party and when i gave my BM and MOH really nice cards from Etsy asking them, they guys all looked at Frank and asked him what he was going to give them to ask them to be in the BP and he said nothing and basically hillarity ensued.
however, he did formally ask his Best Man.

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Jan 11, 2011 09:56 AM

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my fiance actually texted one of his groomsmen and asked him what he was doing on october 16th?

i suggested that he take them out to dinner or to a bar for some drinks and he said that he's not a girl

FutureJOC Posted: Jan 11, 2011 10:00 AM

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Posted by LoveyDovey

nope he flat out asked them

same here.

NikkiB0401 Posted: Jan 11, 2011 10:02 AM

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I don't know if my FH actually asked his boys. I think they kind of assumed when he would talk about it. I know he asked one of them for sure tho cause the kid was sooo happy to be asked. And his best man kinda made him ask. He kept saying wait im the best man??? FH has been friends with the kid since they were 3...he just wanted to hear it out loud i think. lol

HSsweethearts Posted: Jan 11, 2011 10:27 AM

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He called them up and was like 'hey want to be in the bridal party?'

this was the night we told them we got engaged.

When we started replanning after the postponement, one by one when we saw them we re-asked them.

I was starting to make cutesy things for the girls, but I didn't have time.

My sister and BFF knew already, I asked my cousin (through her mom) on the phone and my other cousin in a notecard.