FH'S family guests

ok so i told you guys abt the cousin who's not coming bc he never met me...

well he's not the only one! turns out the girl cousins arent coming to my shower/wedding either!

i dont understand

he has more family in the tri state area than i do and they dont want to see us get married? I have 32 fam members in Peru who are very excited to come to our wedding... i actually spoke to my cousin last night and he already confirmed that his fam is coming (6 ppl)

looking back, fh didnt really attend many family gatherings, maybe they dont like us bc of that?

idk i'm kinda bummed... the only women at the shower (from fh's side) will be his mom, 2 aunts, and gma.

I think every family is different. I invited my entire family and did not expect a lot of them to come, but they are all and were among the first to respond. He invited family and we expected them to come and we have about 1/2 of his invites as No's. I feel bad for FH because so many people that he wanted there are not coming.

edited for spelling.

I agree, every family is different. There are some women from FHs family that I met for the first time at the shower. I was worried it would be awkward, and for me it was a little. So it might have been weird for them too.

I'm sorry you're upset

ok well then what abt the wedding?

i can understand the shower..but the wedding?

We have people on FH's side that I have not met who are coming to the wedding. That said....about the FH not showing up at family functions may have something to do with it....cus my FH has a thing with not showing up at friend's functions, and it's now coming back to him where friends aren't coming to his events.

That's really lame that they're not coming because they haven't met you.

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