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FH's family s.ucks!!! Need to vent!

MrsSx2 Posted:

FH's family s.ucks!!! Need to vent!

I just really need a quick vent on FH’s family members who are in my BP!!! They’re soooo much trouble!!!!! No one can commit to anything..YET they all want to be in our wedding! They are the biggest group of laid back unorganized people I have ever met!!!

FSIL- is my BM (after much crying and complaining that she wasn’t originally selected). She still has not made an effort to go pick out a dress and constantly complains about the colors I pick, the flowers I picked and the shoe color she has to wear, plane ticket prices, hotel prices….everything! All that..AND she has yet to buy her plane ticket to NY for the wedding

FBIL1 – is the BM and father of 1 of my FG’s….bought his plane tix and will be arriving the morning of the wedding…that’s right…they’re flying in the SAME DAY!!! I told him that if he is not at the hotel and ready by 2:30, I am leaving them all there.

FBIL2 – is a GM, now doesn’t know if he can come at all because of an “unexpected” court date. He knew this was coming up and he chose to ignore it because he was “so excited” to be a GM. Now hecalled FH and said he probably can’t come because the court will consider him a “flight risk”. Thanks FBIL!

FHs cousin – is a GM from AZ…and will be flying standby…yes…STAND BY on the day before the wedding.

I HATE THEM ALL RIGHT NOW!!!! Thank god for my family, they are the only dependable people in my wedding party!!

Ok, vent over…I just really had to let that one out to people I know would understand why I wanna cry!!!


ETA: if you read this long thing, thank you!!!!!
elisa112101 Posted:

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hunny i feel your pain... my wedding is in 18 days and OOT guests of FH have not booked there flights(including FMIL) also FFIL has yet to RSVP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Ugh that stinks! Sorry - I dont know why people are so selfish and thoughtless when it comes to the biggest day of someones life ...

AdriandSteve Posted:

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All you can do is worry about your self. I wouldn't give them.. or THEIR problems a second thought.

If FSIL doesn't like your choices, she doesn't have to participate. End of story.
BriansWifey Posted:

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whoaaa.... how do people fly in the day of the wedding?! thats crazy. i hope the plane isnt delayed....they dont seem to reliable.
sorry ure dealing with them and their unorganized selves.
cleokizzy Posted:

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that everything will come out fine for you!
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by AdriandSteve



All you can do is worry about your self. I wouldn't give them.. or THEIR problems a second thought.

If FSIL doesn't like your choices, she doesn't have to participate. End of story.



ditto

MrsSx2 Posted:

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Thanks ladies!!! I knew you guys would understand....just knowing I am not the only one who thinks this is ridiculous is really comforting!

babsie71 Posted:

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I also feel your pain.
future in laws haven't put a dime towards our wedding but it was a must that their names be on the invitation.
future sister in law is a brides maid and hasn't picked up the phone once to ask if I need help with anything. she also gave me a $25 gift card for my shower gift and didn't put a dime towards the shower. I even paid for her bridesmaid dress. *** was I thinking.
Ray8183 Posted:

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