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FH's Step-sister

Deedlebug126 Posted:

FH's Step-sister

I need some help... Should I ask my FH's Step-sister to be in my bridal party. I already have way too many girls in my party and their parents only married 3 years ago, but my FH is having my brother and brother-in-law(my sister's husband). I don't know what to do.

suven Posted:

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nope.

DebsNY Posted:

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Is he close to her? Talk to him and see how he feels. I'd probably ask her to be in it though.

Deedlebug126 Posted:

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They get along well, as do she and I. But they aren't very close. They only see each other on holidays or at weddings. They never call each other just to talk or anything like that.

mrswask Posted:

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I wouldn't. Doesn't seem like you're FH really has an opinion on it.

DrBeLLaRoSe Posted:

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yes i would if FH thinks you should.

danielleb Posted:

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Does she even want to be in the wedding? I know my SIL asked me to be in their wedding, and I didn't want to be because I wasn't close with her, and felt very out of place with all of her friends.

kase21 Posted:

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I wouldn't. She can be a reader or something else if necessary, but you say you have enough girls (or maybe too many ). That would also require recruiting another grooomsman. If your FH and his step-sister aren't close then let it be.

Good Luck!
Deedlebug126 Posted:

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FH doesn't care either way. I think im going to go with NOT asking her. Thanks for your help ladies

LIBrideinBWI Posted:

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Nah - don't ask her. My brother is serving as a groomsman, but I didn't ask FI sisters to be in my bridal party. My bro and FI are very close though, which is why FI asked him (I didn't push him to do it).

Amy

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