fighting about LIW......

Have you girls fought about LIW? well did you FH ever nag about being on LIW all the time??
well my FH and I had a little fight yesterday about me being addicted to LIW...

ok so I work 7 days a week(and i get one saturday off a month) and my FH goes to school about 4 times a week... I admit I dont clean much because I get home around 6-7ish everyday and I just want to rest hang out... we've talked about it a million times that as long as I bring the money he will have to do most of the cleanings.. (when I have off I clean too) I do the laundry and the dishes... etc.. mostly everyday! yesterday I couldnt come on LIW because he kept complaining how I dont clean and all I do is LIW.... meanwhile hes been sitting home since 2pm.. it makes me angry because he does not know the stress I go through everyday.. (dealing with bitchy Korean customers isnt a walk in the park) and yesterday I was busy *** hell couldnt eat lunch my sister was calling with her problems all day and my FH kept calling for favors to call here and there....and I go home and I have to listen to that crap I was sooo angry...!!!! He was like you have 1000+ post that explains that you are addicted and u cant stop. I'm just like ***? you can go play games with your friends til 2am and I cant simply do what I want during the 4 hours I have at home? and he goes ATLEAST I clean! THEN I'm like well I have 4 hours of freedom a day and u have 4 hours of school do the math YOU have the rest of the day to do anything u want!! and we got all pissed off at eachother..

thats what happened yesterday I needed to vent

im sorry =(

listen ...

men dont get it...

we are a group of friends here... we arent chatting about weddings all the time...

would it be better if you were OUT all the time with us girls??

this is an EASY way to chat... same as AIM, any chat.. just this is a forum and not as 'instant'

he sees wedding and chat.. and lables it.. all men do...

let him play his games and what.. u ahve to watch him... I THINK NOT!

amuse him for a little.. then come back to us in full force

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Posted by xXxNovember08xXx

im sorry =(

listen ...

men dont get it...

we are a group of friends here... we arent chatting about weddings all the time...

would it be better if you were OUT all the time with us girls??

this is an EASY way to chat... same as AIM, any chat.. just this is a forum and not as 'instant'

he sees wedding and chat.. and lables it.. all men do...

let him play his games and what.. u ahve to watch him... I THINK NOT!

amuse him for a little.. then come back to us in full force

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lol I hate the fact that when hes on his computer he doesnt even pay attention to me..
I ALWAYS pay attention to him.. even when I'm on LIW I joke around with him and everything. I think hes jealous LOL

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Posted by Espo22

and uhmmm if hes been home since 2pm the argument should've ended there, you're walking all those hours then he can also help out. Tell him you'd like to come home at 7pm to a clean house and if hes been home for 5 hours theres no reason why it shouldn't be

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sometimes guys are butt holes! ugh

Fh doesnt really care, but he does make fun of me and LIW

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Posted by MPAS

Fh doesnt really care, but he does make fun of me and LIW

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my FH usually makes fun of me too but yesterday....

men just dont get it and i dont think we can expect them to. we have had a few disagreements about my time on liweddings BUT i think at this point, he knows its an addiction!

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Posted by Espo22

and uhmmm if hes been home since 2pm the argument should've ended there, you're walking all those hours then he can also help out. Tell him you'd like to come home at 7pm to a clean house and if hes been home for 5 hours theres no reason why it shouldn't be

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Absolutely!

He just likes to joke around with me about it and call it my 'addiction' hehe...but he's addicted to xbox so we both go our seperate ways for a few hrs hehe...

I think he's just jealous! Hey..let him know they have a grooms board on here..watch how fast he fills up those 5hrs with LIW! Then again, no work would get done .. maybe you should just keep quiet! hehe

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

he used to get a little mad i was on alot, but he definately has gotten over it. He is always on the computer as well so hopefully he doesnt feel left out

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NICOLE!!!! any house progress? haha i was thinking about you and your house the other day

all of you girls are awesome~

FH threatens to 'tell on me' and post things on LIW, but he'd never do i t. It's cute when he's like 'I'm telling the girls on LIW!' ...

The other night I said 'I'm in trouble' - and he said 'Oh no, did you insult a RH again and get eveyone hating you all over again?' -- which by the way he told my mom about who then told my cousin! It's so embarrassing. Ha ha!

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Posted by NapaValleyGirl

Listen, I'm SURE he has his vices as well. FH makes fun of me and asked me last night 'what are you going to do after we get married? You have to find another addiction....'

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exactly!!!! when fh says something i tell him not to talk bc he sits hours doing his fantasy teams, he gets trades text to his phone so it never stops and he shops for hours online...but he just jokes around and when serious he'll say that when im not on liw or doing something online then hes on doing his fantasy and we both have our own addictions

FH complains that I'm on my laptop too much and I admit that I am. I'm probably addicted too because I get all irritable when the internet goes down.

I'm on my laptop a lot because I'm a law student and use my computer for my assignments, etc. However, I also like to read LIW, facebook, IM, etc too.

He doesn't get mad though because he plays a ton of video games!! He only gets annoyed if I want to have my computer out while watching tv.

FH thought it was funny at first..and then he started asking me what opinions you girls had on certain things like our favors and stuff...and then he found out about WOTY last year and asked if we could go...I'm in love

But if he did ever get mad, I think I'd bring up the fact that he's on his 'hot deals' forums every day searching for new gadgets or things to buy that are on sale...

...either that or I'd say, 'At least I'm not shopping!'

that would shut him up

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Posted by KickinDandelions

FH thought it was funny at first..and then he started asking me what opinions you girls had on certain things like our favors and stuff...and then he found out about WOTY last year and asked if we could go...I'm in love

But if he did ever get mad, I think I'd bring up the fact that he's on his 'hot deals' forums every day searching for new gadgets or things to buy that are on sale...

...either that or I'd say, 'At least I'm not shopping!'

that would shut him up

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i wish my FH was like that..