fighting with FH

vinnysgrl Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:21 AM

fighting with FH

hey girls,
i dont know if everyone goes through this but im at the six month mark and i seem to be fighting with my fh more and more and over stupid things....i feel so much more sensitive about things and less patient and he is the same with me im feeling like i just need to go out with girls.......is this wrong did everyone go through this

Meaghan315 Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:27 AM

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I think it's normal...theres def a lot of stress with planning a wedding, but dont let it get the best of you or ur FH.....It's not wrong to hang with the grls for a nite...Just really try to not fight/argue over little things with him...try to enjoy this time...together before you become one!! You want to be happy together rite? Try to let the little things 'go.' Hope this lil bit helps!! Good luck!!

cantwait2bewed Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:41 AM

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It is definitely normal. I am going through the same thing. It is just stress. It will all stop after the wedding. I hve seen so many others go through this as well.

CynthiaandJeff Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:41 AM

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I think it's totally normal. There's a lot of fighting in our house too. He's turned into the money police over the past fews months - it's driving me crazy!!!

I'm like the crazy women who shop and hide things in their trunks from their husbands!!

cantwait2bewed Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:42 AM

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Posted by CynthiaandJeff

I think it's totally normal. There's a lot of fighting in our house too. He's turned into the money police over the past fews months - it's driving me crazy!!!

I'm like the crazy women who shop and hide things in their trunks from their husbands!!

OMG i so do the same thing. I hide clothes in my car trunk too.

donofrio Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:43 AM

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You might be a little stressed with all this wedding stuff, and things are just getting to you. i would take a day off of planning and go and enjoy the day with your friends and not talk about wedding stuff.

steflily Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:47 AM

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It's been happening with us too. The closer we get to the wedding, the more it happens. It's natural. Tensions are very high and patience is very low. FMIL told me last night she wants to buy us boxing gloves.
Even though we have little spats during the day, we make sure that we never end a conversation without saying I love you. Helps us to remember why we are doing all of this.

Meaghan315 Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:48 AM

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LOLLLLL I just did that yesterday...I left wrk 2 hrs early, went tanning, got a pedi and my brows waxed, then shopped! LOL........Everything is still in my trunk ANDDD I have to hide this from my FH and MY MOM! lol.....

FallBride05 Posted: Mar 01, 2006 10:52 AM

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definately normal. There is so much stress that you're bound to argue here and there. DH and I NEVER argued and I was never in a bad mood prior to us getting engaged and planning the wedding. We definately saw a new side to eachother!!!

pigs222seal Posted: Mar 01, 2006 12:43 PM

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Posted by CynthiaandJeff

I think it's totally normal. There's a lot of fighting in our house too. He's turned into the money police over the past fews months - it's driving me crazy!!!

I'm like the crazy women who shop and hide things in their trunks from their husbands!!

ME TOOOOOO, isn't it great!

October Bliss Posted: Mar 01, 2006 04:30 PM

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FH & I went through that a couple of months ago. We had the biggest argument over nothing - we didn't speak for THREE days!! Things have calmed down considerably.

A friend of mine always says she is amazed so many people actually get married b/c of the stress and arguments wedding planning causes. She works for a wedding vendor, so she sees quite a large number of arguments between engaged couples.

JennylovesBrian Posted: Mar 01, 2006 05:34 PM

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What I think it is, is that we as women have this image in our minds of how we always imagined our weddings, and when anyone tells us different or brings a bit of reality to us, we freak out and most of the time its FH doing it! Its hard, but you get over it.

GeorgeGiuliana Posted: Mar 02, 2006 12:55 PM

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We definately went through this and I didn't want anyone to know I would read on these boards how in love everyone was and it just stressed me out even more!!!! We finally had a major blow out about a month and a half ago and. I only told one friend and she asked why I was even getting married if it was that bad which made me even more stressed. We talked things out finally and he couldn't be anymore helpful and understanding! It's a totally differnt world now which makes a crazied bride into a beautiful bride!