fighting with fh

Debra7/21 Posted: Jul 09, 2006 10:42 PM

fighting with fh

i cant take this. we went to a wedding last night and a boy who i worked with when i was a teenager came over and kissed me hello. i introduced fh, but he didnt like the fact that this boy came up and came in between us and kissed me. i dont blame him because i am very jealous, but i dont think it is something we should be fighting about. i want this next week and a half before the wedding to be happy and i dont need added stress. i dont know how to stop the fighting. any advice

ewickens Posted: Jul 09, 2006 10:48 PM

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Just let him know you love him, one and only!

GsCM4EVA Posted: Jul 09, 2006 10:49 PM

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I don't know which advice to give-bc me and FH are fighting like crazy.
my mother just walked in n reminded me...iTS ABOUT US! NOT ABOUT ANY OTHER A$$HOLE lol

msnora Posted: Jul 09, 2006 11:25 PM

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Wow I thought I was the on ly one that this stuff happens to. It's just stress my fh probably would have gotten upset to but... tell him that you love him and only him.... REally its just all the pressure and stress that makes things like that escalate. It's hard I know believe me .... we are in peaceful mode and I pray it stays that we because it is only 13 days away!!!!!!

Sit down together and think of all the happy times and just really kind of rekindle happy thoughts.

HOpe this helps.

Debra7/21 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 07:40 AM

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thanks girls. the wedding was sat night and when he left for work this morning, he didnt say a word to me. i just want this to be the happiest times of our lives and it is not working out that way. i dont know what else to do to make him stop fighting

stephanief Posted: Jul 10, 2006 09:58 AM

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It is the wedding stress....me and DH got into a fight the day before the wedding. We both said 'I don't want to marry you'....and then immediately started laughing. Planning a wedding does some strange things to you. Don't worry too much about it !!!

SweetCin704 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 10:06 AM

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We had a big fight Fri. night right after our church rehearsal b/c he went out for a cigar & 40 min. later was still downstairs talking to our landlord & his wacko wife. I was upstairs straightening up & getting everything in order. I flipped out & locked him out.

I know it all comes down to stress & nerves.

Tell him again how much you love him & agree w/ him that the guy did have nerve to do what he did, but you can't control what other people do. Reassure him!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jul 10, 2006 10:17 AM

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DH and I definitely fought a lot before the wedding. I was telling everyone in the days leading up to him that I was more annoyed with him then fond of him.
Don't worry - its just stress!

pigs222seal Posted: Jul 10, 2006 10:45 AM

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There's a lot of stress before any life changing event......this is 'normal.' Men show there feelings in a very different way then women.

When I was stressed about the wedding I would tell DH and maybe shed a few tears, but when DH was stressed he would pick an argument or bring up the passed.

Be possitive, everything calms down immediatly following the wedding day. We had a wonderful, relaxing time on our HM and now, a month later, things are great.

Everything will be fine!