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fighting with FI. he makes me so mad

WithThisRing Posted:

fighting with FI. he makes me so mad

about a few weeks I posted a question about funds being put into my account that werent mine, but after looking into everything the bank told me it is mine. Well I got a call now that the banks were wrong. it wasnt mine. they had my account number with the wrong name. I was doing temp work with a company and my consultants name was in the box that should of had my name so i was getting her paychecks. This is why everything matched up to be mine because it was the company i was temping for and my voided out check info.

I got a call last night from the head office saying sorry this is all a big mistake, big misunderstanding. can you write us a check for 1900 dollars?

No problem right?? Wrong

I called brian and all he did was yell at me. He said this is all my fault and that I shouldn’t have spent that money and that maybe if I tried harder this would have been resolved weeks ago and I wouldn’t be in this situation.

I got denied unemployement from blackrock and he said well I should have tried harder. I should have spoken to the labor board and that I was lazy and that I didn’t want to do anything. I said I tried brian. I did the best I could. He said apparently not because you could have fought this. I said I couldn’t blackrock denied my appeal. He said really how do you know. I said what did you think I sat on my A$$ all day for the 3 months i was out of work. I called people. BR said insubordination denied. He said but it wasn’t it was false termination. I said its my word against theirs and they will win.

All he did was yell at me.

So now he is yelling at how accountpro's payed me for 2 weeks when it should have been 3 and I never got my one week and a day pay and that I never did anything about it. I said what do you want me to do. I have to look at the calendar at days worked and I have to look at my pay stubs for all you know I could be wrong. He said for all you know you could be right and why do you have to pay them when they didn’t pay you.

I was like I just want to pay them and not have any problems and he doesn’t want me to because he thinks they are trying to screw me 10 different ways and that I am paying taxes on someone elses paycheck.

I said to him sometimes in life you just have to shut up. He said no you have to investigate and find out because when it involves money you just don’t sit back and pay something unless you know the facts. I said this isn’t my money. I have to pay them

He got so mad and I think he was going to hang up on me. I told him look I didn’t call you to fight with you I am just telling you how it is.

So he says well we don’t have the money right now and they are going to have to wait for it.

Then he was like I have to go to work. I have to figure things out. We have to come up with a lot of money and we don’t have it so I need to go. I said fine I'll see you later.

Oooh he just gets me so mad
aliasPook Posted:

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Most men are like that. But I'm sure when you go home things will be a little better.
nylisa Posted:

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Melissa, I am so sorry that you and Brian are fighting. IMO, I think that you should call them up and explain to them that you do not have all the money right away but are willing to create a payment plan (if you can) to pay them back the money. All your friends are here to listen. Vent anytime you need to.
Betty Posted:

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I agree with nylisa. THEY told you it was your money so they should understand. Good Luck
Misty Posted:

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IMO, they should be paying, not you. It was there mistake! Do you have any documentation of them telling you it was yours?

I'm sorry you're fighting. But guys can be real !@#% about money sometimes. I think they feel it's their duty to police us sometimes.

I am sure this will blow over, don't fret.
Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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Mel.

U know I love you and I think Bri should calm down and let you handle it..

Its you who works for it.. Not him!!

U know we love you and are here!!
WithThisRing Posted:

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thanks

I think i am going to cry. Brian just called me. he said i am so sorry to yell at you, i am really stressed about working all these hours and not seeing a paycheck for a few weeks. dont worry we'll work something out. i'll pick you up tonight after bowling.

i am going to do that, call the guy and ask if i can send him some now and work out a payment plan of some sort

Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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I dont' get WHY you have to give your pay back..

What did I miss?
WithThisRing Posted:

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They accidently gave me my consultants paycheck.

i was also suppose to get a week and a day pay and i didnt.

so technically they still owe me a pay check, but i have to give back the paycheck that was meant for my consultant.

This made brian very very angry.

But when he called me back appologizing i started to get teary eyed.

I hate fighting with him
Ronnie&Theresa Posted:

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Wait they owe you $$ and you are giving $$ back..

Isnt' that NUTTY?
WithThisRing Posted:

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they didnt give me my paycheck, but paid me someone else pay check. so i have to pay them someone elses pay check and find out where is mine.

its such a mess.
jennbaby Posted:

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i knew it wasn't yours i had a gut feeling. i hope you and brian don't fight anymore
Becky Posted:

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Melissa, I think you should contact a lawyer if you have not been paid wages that are owed to you. The laws about this are VERY strict. I am a MD attorney, so I don't really know what the exact law in NY is, but down here, if an employer refuses to pay wages (which includes bonuses and commissions) they can get hit with treble damages (three times the amount owed) and attorneys fees.

WithThisRing Posted:

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thanks jenn.

so far when he called me back appologizing i guess that was the end of the argument.

i know we'll figure this out. i am not worried
Claud2001 Posted:

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I agree with Becky - to contact a lawyer - or, in the very least, tell the agency that you are only going to give back the amount of money that is *less* the amount that you ARE OWED for the work that you have done. It's only fair...

WithThisRing Posted:

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i didnt even think to contact a lawyer. I'll definatly look into that. I know W-2's have to be mailed out by the 30th and I havent received any of my 4 W-2s owed to me. that is making me very nervous.

i am suppose to get one from my old firm, one from unemployement, one from one temp agency and one from another.

i havent gotten any.

why me??? i am a good person, i pay all my taxes on time, i am honest??? why????

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