How many have you and FH had since wedding plans started? How many tempers flaring and called off weddings due to stupid arguements. I got so mad at FH this weekend over directions and called off my wedding. We made up though the wedding is back on I told myself to stop blowing up so fast.
D's Girl
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We don't really fight, argue that is a whole other story.
We did a lot in the beginning of the planning, but I think that was normal and made us closer as time went on. It's just a different kind of pressure, the whole wedding planning experience and to be honest, it is making our love for each other stronger day by day because it is the first time since we are together that it's all about being a team, making major decisions and spending a shi* load of money.
We said once or twice 'Do you want to end this' and looked at each other and just laughed'
lisalisa27
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Yeah well that is what I mean argue I should edit the post to read that. But I know what you mean.
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we really don't argue much, but i will get my I'm mad at you look on and not talk much. Its so hard when you asked for thier opinion they say they don't care, than you decide and now they care. It kills me.
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Posted by leshellem
we really don't argue much, but i will get my I'm mad at you look on and not talk much. Its so hard when you asked for thier opinion they say they don't care, than you decide and now they care. It kills me.
I know Im like what you think about this and he like whatever you want. I just want to hit him..
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We definitely have our moments...not too bad yet b/c we've been taking it slow but he lives 1.5 hours away so I basically do everything first then fill him in and take him to meet people if need be...it's exhausting at times!! But we'll have more I'm sure...I'm prepared for it!! It's completely normal I'm told
MrsMichel07
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We have been butting heads about how much money is being spent.!!
lilqtpie2181
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I thnk that we have fun doing wedding stuff so we don't argue about it. Through the years we have learned how to compromise with one another very well. We Talk everything over s it helps avoid those annoying little tiffs about nothing that make u all upset. (we still have those but about the stupidest little things) Anyway basically the wedding planning has brougth us even closer
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Posted by lilqtpie2181
I thnk that we have fun doing wedding stuff so we don't argue about it. Through the years we have learned how to compromise with one another very well. We Talk everything over s it helps avoid those annoying little tiffs about nothing that make u all upset. (we still have those but about the stupidest little things) Anyway basically the wedding planning has brougth us even closer
Oh when I grow up I want to be like you guys!!
BrideChrissy
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I have to agree with Penny
My FH and I do not argue or fight over the wedding planning. We have fun doing it and we discuss everything before we finalize to make sure we are both happy. The thing is we really don't fight or argue to begin with so I guess its expected we wouldn't fight over the wedding.
Mandyin2007
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We fight alot then things are fine... then we think about money again... nothing major though.
mrsh2b
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There has been major war over stuff with the wedding but now that the majority of planning is done, the white flags have come up and everything has been fine...until seating arrangements...LOL
danielle19755
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Alot!! maybe once every other week@!
laural2979
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We're both on the same page about how money should be spent so there haven't been any fights about it. Lets not talk about my mother and FH though. The two of them have definitely butted heads.
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We haven't had any fights or arugments over the wedding really. The only time we butted heads was over whether or not to have an engagement party.
I have to agree with a few others that the planning has brought us closer together, we are picking almost everything out together and so far so good.
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We haven't really fought over the wedding, but we do feel a little anxious at times over how this is all going to come together. I'm a long term planner so I divide up everything that needs to be done over the amount of time we have left until the wedding (in our case that's 13 months). When you chart things out that way it makes it easier to tackle things one by one (at least I think so). Of course, FH looks at everything on the list and thinks it's NEVER going to get done on time and starts to stress, which in turn stresses me. LOL.
Either way you look at it, this is going to be a sensitive time for the two of you and you just need to remember that stress comes with the territory. Most importantly, try to remember that you're doing this whole marriage thing because you love each other, can't live without each other, blah, blah, blah. hee hee.
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Posted by lilqtpie2181
I thnk that we have fun doing wedding stuff so we don't argue about it. Through the years we have learned how to compromise with one another very well. We Talk everything over s it helps avoid those annoying little tiffs about nothing that make u all upset. (we still have those but about the stupidest little things) Anyway basically the wedding planning has brougth us even closer
same here. never any big blow outs. but we just dont' fight like that anyway. we try and nip anything in the bud before it becomes a screaming match.
i must say i don't think i'd ever say the wedding is off! i know every bride is different and can say things in anger...but i have never reached a point where i'd say that to him cause i know it would hurt him if that ever came out of my mouth in anger. (cause he would take it HARD!)
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We are having fun planning the wedding. I love his face when it comes time to make a final decision...he looks at me with a smile as if he is saying what would make you happy (he is so adorable). We are doing everything together (except shopping for my gown).
lisaslove
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we dont fight
MichLiz213
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I think I would fit into this better if the question were, 'How many fights have you and your MOTHER gotten into since you and FH have gotten engaged?' Because that has been more of an issue than me and FH getting into arguments.
