So I picked out my dresses thursday, was super exceited (pics in my album) it was a long process longer than chosing my dress because yes it is me day but I didn't want them to hate their dress or be uncomfortable. To be honest I think I am an extremely accomidating bride to b, dont care how they do their hair, told them get gold strappy sandals dont care exactly what they are and told them they are not obligated to get their make up done. Fair right? Just show up in your dress!!!! WELLL, my 1 friend which is like a dancing diva (takes professional dancing etc.) tells my other friend how am I suppose to dance in a long dress and I don't understand why I can't change after the church into something else!?! She already asked me this and I said absolutely not, why is she still talking about it!!! My other bm/friend was like r u freaking stupid you dont ask a bride a question like that! I swear, I need to let it all out and talk about it because I will kill her if I am given the chance. If she didn't want to be told what to where she shouldn't have accepted my invite to be in the bridal party
Deeglasser
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bottom line- you can't make everyone happy no matter how hard you try... there is always someone who is going to complain or going to be unhappy with something about the wedding... we're not having a bridal party and we hear it from some family members!!!!
MrsJuneB2B
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Posted by Deeglasser
bottom line- you can't make everyone happy no matter how hard you try... there is always someone who is going to complain or going to be unhappy with something about the wedding... we're not having a bridal party and we hear it from some family members!!!!
ITA! no matter what, you're gonna hear complaints. people just find things to complain about, so all the work you put into being accommodating and thinking about other people, does sometimes feel like a waste. been there, deal with that on a monthly basis. sorry you have to deal with the drama!
