FIL vent - updated
nothing new has happened... but i am still so upset about the huge fight that FH had with them last sunday that i can't even be around them! is that normal? and yes i told FH how i feel... he says he understands... but i am getting married in less than 4 months, and i think my shower is next month, so obviously i can't keep avoiding them...
how do i just suck this up and get over it? i am mostly mad because they told FH some bullsh*t stores and lies about me, whiich obviously he didn't beliave but still, i have not been able to defend myself or confront them - i know that they wouldn't listen or they would deny they said anything at all.
just miserable... and it's father's day, too, so FH is at his parent's house and i am at mine.. i don't know if being apart is better or worse at this point!
UPDATED:
so FH calls me at about 5pm - his parents had to work today (they own a body shop) and told him that they would be home around 3 so they could celebrate father's day. well he calls his mom around 4 - and she tells him that his dad was hungry so they just went to the diner!! FH called me, he sounded so upset and let down... and i felt terrible! luckily we hadn't eaten, and my parents insisted he come over... he seems ok now, but i just feel so bad. i think after everything that happened this week he was looking forward to spending time with them, and they totally blew him off.![]()
they just aren't the nice normal people i thought they were...
how do i just suck this up and get over it? i am mostly mad because they told FH some bullsh*t stores and lies about me, whiich obviously he didn't beliave but still, i have not been able to defend myself or confront them - i know that they wouldn't listen or they would deny they said anything at all.
just miserable... and it's father's day, too, so FH is at his parent's house and i am at mine.. i don't know if being apart is better or worse at this point!
UPDATED:
so FH calls me at about 5pm - his parents had to work today (they own a body shop) and told him that they would be home around 3 so they could celebrate father's day. well he calls his mom around 4 - and she tells him that his dad was hungry so they just went to the diner!! FH called me, he sounded so upset and let down... and i felt terrible! luckily we hadn't eaten, and my parents insisted he come over... he seems ok now, but i just feel so bad. i think after everything that happened this week he was looking forward to spending time with them, and they totally blew him off.
