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FIL's?

allornil Posted:

FIL's?

ok I'm gonna get this board going.

who likes / hates their inlaws?

Mine are AMAZING! My FMIL gave me food to bring to work yesterday and put a note in that it was for me and that FH was allowed to touch it. :)

She's a bit crazy but nothing xanax can't help lol
MsMagztobe Posted:

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lol we definately get along very well thank god

FutureMrsPena622 Posted:

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We get along well, they are great!!!

Thank goodness
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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For the most part I get along with my FIL's

FFIL is very relaxed and calm

and FMIL just drives me NUTS!!!! she always has to pick apart everything I do...asks me the same questions 9,000 times...obsessively emails me throughout the day...

eta: FMIL means well though, she doesnt try to make me
allornil Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

For the most part I get along with my FIL's

FFIL is very relaxed and calm

and FMIL just drives me NUTS!!!! she always has to pick apart everything I do...asks me the same questions 9,000 times...obsessively emails me throughout the day...



I would kill myself if FMIL even knew how to use email. omg. it's bad enough w my mom Iming me.

and FFIL just got a cell phone and he calls me..every day!
poisonivy918 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

For the most part I get along with my FIL's

FFIL is very relaxed and calm

and FMIL just drives me NUTS!!!! she always has to pick apart everything I do...asks me the same questions 9,000 times...obsessively emails me throughout the day...

eta: FMIL means well though, she doesnt try to make me



finally I am not alone in this lol. well at first his parents/mother used to pick apart every little thing I did and omg if I showed any cleavage it was the end of the world!!!
MrsHazel2B Posted:

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FH's parents are deceased, so are his grandparents. But he has 8 siblings who I get along with fine! He's the 7th child, so his older siblings are like parents, which is fine. His oldest sister cooks for me all the time
poisonivy918 Posted:

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at first when we started dating they lets see what came first. they thought I was a bad influence (I have no idea why), then thought I was hiding something or who knows. (maybe because my brother had died? who knows really)

then one day I showed up not realizing we were stopping at his house and I had a low cut top showing a bit of cleavage so omg I have huge boobs they are impossible to hide! so yeah that was a big thing.

I got a vip box at msg (my dad gets it sometimes) it became a big thing because my uncle got really drunk on a bottle of wine. it was a Saturday night with free food and an open bar! my family knows how to party so yeah that wasn't a good thing. I was like what about the fact I got free tickets for his family and all that?

oh yeah the first day I met his parents I started eating first so they said I was so rude with no manners. when first of all his father started eating then stopped but I kept eating because I'm not a robot! lol.

another time after dinner the night before my dad's birthday we were just sitting around and they were talking, because they are one of those families that sit around talking about people I've never met or have any idea who they are talking about. and I texted my cousin where we were going to eat for my dad's bday and to give my uncle directions. so that was another big thing how I have no manners. though we were sitting in the living room! we weren't at some big fancy dinner. I didn't even think they'd notice they were all in such deep conversation.

I could go on! so yeah I started having panic attacks anytime he wanted me to go over there and for the longest time I wouldn't go there. I still don't over there that much. my parents though divorced are both the most easy going parents alive. his parents are very old fashioned! I'm marrying him though not his parents

plus he's nothing like them. he's had a crazier past then me so I don't see what the big deal was. it's not like he was a saint and I was going to corrupt him lol.

I have never met parents like his. I've always had parents like me. except for my ex's but he used to tell his mom everything about our well personal life I'll say lol. which I found really odd and disturbing.

his parents though do seem to have warmed up to me especially since I am going to be around! lol. guess they figure there is nothing they can do? who knows.

also omg the night he wanted to sleep over my house for the first time was a huge thing I think his parents are just the kind who can't let go or something. my parents let go the 2nd I turned 18 lol. it was like our job is done here. not to mention I've always had people sleeping over here, or me sleeping over somewhere.

I do really hope I get a lot closer to them one day. it'd be nice because my mom lives far away and I need that mother figure lol. though my mom gets so jealous especially if I ever went to get my nails done with her oh well my mom was the one who decided to move to Louisiana lol.

I really rambled quite a bit lol
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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LOL FIL's are a ramble on kinda subject!

5272012 Posted:

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I love my FIL's they have been nothing but helpful throughout everything :) They are amazing! and I am so lucky.

I am so sorry for anyone who doesnt get along with them!
FutureMrsCat050412 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

LOL FIL's are a ramble on kinda subject!



ditto

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