FIL's guest list

wow thats tough....
dont even what to suggest other than cutting the list urself
also talk to ur FH and show him #'s wise how much all these extra ppl are adding up to be. my FH wanted to invited redic amount of ppl but when I showed him how much extra money that is he saw that would be totally outrages

i'm going to wait it out.
i dont want to really fight w/fh over this when we have so much time....i'll ask them again in a few wks when we start compiling STD addresses..

but thx ladies... i feel better

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Posted by latinaj

i'm in tears here....fh's parents list is a joke...

after i said..no children/noone under 21 pretty much....there are about 15 kids on this list

no dates as guests...unless a committed relationship, we agreed to not have any dates...everyone has the word fiance nxt to them...even ppl i know are single (his cousin)

and fh sees no problems w/this...and will not talk to his parents..i cant talk to them bc they speak little english...

i'm so frustrated right now.... mind u ladies my parents are paying for the hall, we're paying for the rest but fh's parents are not paying 1$

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I hear ya girl...when FH and I first started talking about the guest list we got into quite a few fights bc his parents were giving him a hard time sticking to the number we gave them. You really need to sit down w/ FH and talk about it and decide what is best to do and what YOU guys want. It's all about the two of you... He is going to need to talk to his parents about it and they are going to need to respect what you guys want. They will come around. Stick to your guns!