final QOTD. .(well for me)

meara Posted: May 31, 2009 11:43 AM

final QOTD. .(well for me)

okay so I suspect No one will answer this b/c you are all outside enjoying or stuff but here goes

1. If there was anyone alive or dead, that you know or don't know that you could have at your wedding who would it be and why?

2. same set up but reverse. who would you NOT want there. .like it would be your nightmare if they showed up??

Summertimegal424 Posted: May 31, 2009 11:47 AM

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i would wnat my aunt who just recently passed away. she meant sooo much to me and the fact that she isn't gonna be there in person breaks my heart. i do know she will be there in spirits and its funny cause i dont really believe in that kinda stuff, but i definitley felt presense of her at my bridal shower and it FREAKED the heck outta me

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: May 31, 2009 11:49 AM

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Posted by meara

okay so I suspect No one will answer this b/c you are all outside enjoying or stuff but here goes

1. If there was anyone alive or dead, that you know or don't know that you could have at your wedding who would it be and why?

2. same set up but reverse. who would you NOT want there. .like it would be your nightmare if they showed up??

Incubus to sing our first dance song (i shamelessly tried to recruit them lol) and frank sinatra

I would not want... hmmm.. tough question... i really dont know

coldasice217 Posted: May 31, 2009 11:54 AM

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I would want my aunt there, who died when I was in 6th grade. I often wonder what my life would have been like if she hadn't passed away. She had such great plans for us, we were going to travel throughout Europe, see the world, enjoy art and culture. I get so upset thinking that she would be so disappointed in the way my life turned out, a sheltered bubble of nothingness, because she wasn't around to prevent it from happening. I just hope she'll be able to look down and be able to give a sign that at least this is the right move.

Who would I absolutely never want there? The guy from school who broke my heart....not that there would be any reason for him to be there in the first place, but if there's one person in this world that I wouldn't want anywhere near my wedding, that's it.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: May 31, 2009 12:02 PM

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Posted by coldasice217

Who would I absolutely never want there? The guy from school who broke my heart....not that there would be any reason for him to be there in the first place, but if there's one person in this world that I wouldn't want anywhere near my wedding, that's it.

Funny you mention this... bc I was at a going away party for a friend... and somehow I turn around and standing right there was the guy i liked all throughout hs... who just teased and tormented me... he was never part of our circle of friends so hes the last person i thought id be seeing there... he cornered me into talking with him... FH was no where to be found and then im cornered by his friend who starts hitting on me So i could def do without him at the wedding... I was uneasy for the rest of the night... Oh yeah and my ex should get hit by a truck on the way if he ever attempted to make an appearance...

AugustBridein09 Posted: May 31, 2009 12:02 PM

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The person I would want there most of all would be my grandma who passed away in 2002.

The person I don't want anywhere near my wedding is my daddy's mother...I cannot stand her!

MrsGRod09 Posted: May 31, 2009 12:02 PM

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I would want my dad there most definitely.

I wouldn't want any exes because i know they would just do something stupid to destroy everything.

GT143EA Posted: May 31, 2009 12:07 PM

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I would want all of my grandparents there(they are all deceased)
I woulnt not want FH's ex(baby momma) there! And if she ever did there would be a seroius brawl!

MrsCM Posted: May 31, 2009 12:10 PM

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My grandmother, great grandmother and my nanny growing up because they raised me.

MrsJuneB2B Posted: May 31, 2009 12:31 PM

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i don't think i could pick only one person... my nana, pop-pop and uncle....and this will sound incredibly dumb, but my cat sebbie... i love them all so much and will miss them terribly, like i do everyday.

but for who i don't want to come... i don't think i can think of anyone... that's a tough one! i'm gonna say rain clouds! (i know that's cheating! lol)

springsandra Posted: May 31, 2009 12:33 PM

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My obvious answer is my grandmother (nana) who passed away in February but not as she was before she died, the way I knew her growing up. Then again, she promised me the day before she died that she would be at the wedding whether we invited her or not... So I guess she's going to be there!!! Lol

My 'creative' answer is tv character Rob Petrie, D!ck Van Dyke's character from the D!ck Van Dyke show. He's so funny and creative and fun, he'd have everyone at the wedding entertained and in stitches! That or the Monkees to be our band. Gosh, I loved them growing up!!

As far as who better stay far, far away... Definitely my ex Kevin who we think may have broken into my apt and burglaized me a few yrs back. He was abused and watched his mom get beaten by his dad as a child and was an extrmely abusive boyfriend at the time, mentally (not physically). Definitely don't want him anywhere near our celebration!

Great question!! You always make us think!

MirabellaNYC Posted: May 31, 2009 12:50 PM

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I would hands down want my father there-he passed away when I was 15.

Who would I NOT want there in a nightmare? A former old friend of mine who is a completely beligerant alcoholic and on again/off again drug addict. I stopped talking to her 2 years ago because she is just out of control. I would die if she showed up at our wedding.

gina409 Posted: May 31, 2009 02:44 PM

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i would def love to have one of my grandmothers there....i never met either and i always wanted a grandma..they seem fun

as for who not to show up..i guess my ex?

azailia Posted: May 31, 2009 09:10 PM

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I would definately want my dad there sooo much, all my grandparents, my friend jordan who passed in january

and my cousin ashley (who is sick right now) and her mom

i wouldnt want anyone there who wasnt truly happy for me and deacon

MLAngelo Posted: May 31, 2009 09:16 PM

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I wish my grandma and grandpa could be there. My grandfather would have LOVED jason, they are both engineers and doers. My grandmother was just a partier and would have been SO SO SO much fun at my wedding.

Who I wouldn't want... there are a few people we are obligated to invite that I wouldn't cry if they didn't come. You can't pick your family.

Amberrenee6705 Posted: May 31, 2009 09:17 PM

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I would have my FH's dad there. He died when he was 13 and I would just love to have met him, and have him there for D.

FutureSMwifey Posted: May 31, 2009 09:21 PM

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hands down i want my grandparents there more then anythiing- its painful enough thinking how they wont be there since they were always a second set of parents to me..lived with them my whole life... they both passed away 3 weeks apart last summer..the big C..cant talk about it cause it makes me

i honestly cant think of anyone who i would NOT want to be there....i have to think about that one

Gracie821 Posted: May 31, 2009 09:21 PM

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I would def want my daddy there. He passed away when I was 15, and ever since then I have been dreading having to walk down the aisle without him

As for who I would not want to be there, I'm not sure, I guess I'm going to copy the bride who said rain clouds

Juhgail Posted: May 31, 2009 09:33 PM

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Posted by meara

okay so I suspect No one will answer this b/c you are all outside enjoying or stuff but here goes

1. If there was anyone alive or dead, that you know or don't know that you could have at your wedding who would it be and why?

2. same set up but reverse. who would you NOT want there. .like it would be your nightmare if they showed up??

1. My grandparents. Im sad that I am the last grandchild to get married and they cant be there.

2. My cousin (name intentionally left blank). She is coming and it gonna be a problem.

ick!

meara Posted: May 31, 2009 10:22 PM

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alright . . once again I forgot to answer this.

I would def want fh's mom there . she passed away and I know he is so sad not to be there. and also my grandparents who are passed..

would not want. . hmmm don't really know. . maybe my ex who is still hung up on me. ..