Finally a NO response. . .
So we invited way more people than we really wanted to do to the fact FMIL had to invite all her neighbors, now there is one neighbor i cant stand. . . . they are so annoying (they went to my FFIL bday party and ordered steak for their 6 year old and 10 year old so they could take it home so my FMIL wound up paying for those plates as if it was for an adult.) anyway they answered NO they will not attend WOOHOO I think its because I didnt invite the children. . . yay my first no and its someone me or the FH cant stand even my FMIL was thrilled to hear the news lol.