I HAVE NO REGRETS AND FEEL SOOOOOOO RELIEVED LIKE THINGS WILL GO AS SMOOTH AS EXPECTED..
Mrs. V 2008
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good for you! How did she take it?
waterspout4
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Goodbye weight on your shoulders!!!!!!!!!
danniegirl
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Just completely took mine out of my wedding and uninvited her to the wedding - the best thing I could have done! Could not take the negativity anymore! Way to go!!
Good for you! Glad you're happy. I had to ask my MOH to step down as well and I too was very happy with my decision. However, I will say this -- be careful of your words. 'demoting' is a harsh term. It isnt a 'job' and this woman was your friend, and there are a lot of brides on these boards who wouldnt appreciate that terminology when referencing your BP. JMO.
Marchbride07
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Good job! How did she take it??
RGV07
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wow, good for you to do!!!!!! less stress on your part.
SuperFly
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congratz you don't need ne1 messin up you're day
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Posted by danniegirl
Just completely took mine out of my wedding and uninvited her to the wedding - the best thing I could have done! Could not take the negativity anymore! Way to go!!
I did the same thing to mine at the very beginning and it was the best thing I could've done!
miss nee
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THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT.. AND THE RELIEF I FEEL IS UNIMAGINABLE.. I THINK SHE IS UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT THIS DECISION IS REVERSIBLE...MY MIND IS MADE AND THE VOTES ARE IN...
TLC1018
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Good for you!!!! You made the choice that you knew you should. Hope everything goes smoothly from here on out!
PegaLega
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Good for you-glad you are happy! How did that go
miss nee
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she seemed to finally accept this and understand my decision is firm and for the best...
MrsBrags7706
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wow! good 4 u! u did what i always wanted to do! i regret not 'demoting' my MOH, and i have to live with it for the rest of my life. plus my mom said i 'couldnt!'
MrsBrags7706
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IS she sttill in ur Bp, but just as a bridesmaids or no ??
miss nee
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yeah she is alive and well in the bridal party....
Skeeter
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I did the same thing. This was the best thing I could have done !