First BM drama..my head hurts.........sorry so long! with poll!

Nov 12, 2007 07:13 PM

So I have a friend I asked to me in my BP we are friends but not BFF r anything. She has been there for me at time when I needed someone but she isn't the first person I would ever run to. We had a falling out a few years ago where we didn't talk for over a year but then we made up. Whenever we are all hanging out ( out little group) I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around her. She is one of those people who doesn't like to be proved wrong, at time she acts very childish and I am not the only one that sees this I have talked to others as well and they say I not wrong. I am always afraid to state my honest opinion around her because I dont wanna start an argument. That is a very hard thing for me to do because I am the kind of person who tells it like it is. But for the sake of the friendship and the fact that we all hang out together I don't say anything. She has a short fuse at time and just gets very frustrated with people when they don't understand what she is talking about. Like one time she was talking about something on a TV show that me and my friend don't watch and she got annoyed that we had no idea what she was talking about! I just don't know what to do....She got married last year and is living at home with her parents and has money problems and she always talks about how broke she is and stuff and she has 3 weddings to pay for our friends wedding , her cousin and mine...her Cousin is getting married less than a month before me! I don't want her to go broke #1 and #2 I am afraid with all the bickering that we will get into a huge fight after the dresses and stuff are ordered and its gonna be a bigger deal that it is now! I am sorry if I am rambling I really just don't know what to do ...keep her in and see what happens or tell her I wanna take back her invitation to be in the BP??? I have been banging my head against the wall for the past few days I am just so confused! aaaaaaaaaagggggggggg