so i didn't think i would ever have to write a BM vent b/c i am the MOST LEAST bridezilla out there. i have tried SO hard to be so accomadating to my bridesmaids.
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so all my bridesmaids ordered there dresses within the last few weeks of december, and they all came in rather quickly..and all of them had them b4 the new year. So im hanging w/ Fh's cousin the other day and im like o how does ur dress fit and such and she proceeds to tell me that her dress didn't come in yet, and i found that strangely weird considering she supposivly ordered it w/ the rest of them back in dec.
well now its urking me so i call davids bridal today only to find out that SHE NEVER BOUGHT THE DRESS ...so it was never ordered! i am sooooooo disappointed. I tried calling her, and no answer...
I'd like to see what her answer to this is going to be
considering my other girls dresses were in so quickly i dont think she should run into a problem ordering, but u nnnnnever know!
ugh okay vent over thanks if you got through all this!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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wow thats effeddd up.... tell her to beat it at this point since she apaprently lied to you... altho maybe it was a mistake... maybe she thought YOU were to order it for them
Summertimegal424
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
wow thats effeddd up.... tell her to beat it at this point since she apaprently lied to you... altho maybe it was a mistake... maybe she thought YOU were to order it for them
no shes famous for this type of behavior
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i hate to say it but it sounds like she doesn't want to be a part of your bridal party... i know a girl who did that to a bride... she never ordered it when everyone else did and later told her she didn't want to be in it anymore... i hope it's not true for you and that you can work it out...
SoontobeMrsG
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I would let it go, it seems like she doesnt want to be a part of it. You asked her about it and she clearly lied to your face, I would say good riddance! You only want people around you who love you and are happy to be a part of your wedding!!!
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Wow...that's pretty sneaky. I'm sorry! Did you ask her to be in the BP just out of courtesy? If so, I don't think you should feel obligated in this instance if this is how you are being treated.
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WOW that is so weird, and why would she lie to you about it. I would call her and say hey, i am worried that everyones dresses came in a while ago and yours hasn't, maybe they forgot to order the right amount of dresses, and say don't worry i'll call and find out what the problem is. See what she says then lol. And when she tells you then ask her straight up if she wants to be part of it, what is her deal
Cacarina
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OMG, why did she lie to you? So weird. I'm sorry!!! I totally understand how you feel, that is so frustrating!!!
ttdiff11
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wow im really sorry! i dont know why she would have lied?
FutureMrsD09
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That is totally not cool. Is she having money issues maybe?
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Posted by Summertimegal424
so i didn't think i would ever have to write a BM vent b/c i am the MOST LEAST bridezilla out there. i have tried SO hard to be so accomadating to my bridesmaids.
story:
so all my bridesmaids ordered there dresses within the last few weeks of december, and they all came in rather quickly..and all of them had them b4 the new year. So im hanging w/ Fh's cousin the other day and im like o how does ur dress fit and such and she proceeds to tell me that her dress didn't come in yet, and i found that strangely weird considering she supposivly ordered it w/ the rest of them back in dec.
well now its urking me so i call davids bridal today only to find out that SHE NEVER BOUGHT THE DRESS ...so it was never ordered! i am sooooooo disappointed. I tried calling her, and no answer...
I'd like to see what her answer to this is going to be
considering my other girls dresses were in so quickly i dont think she should run into a problem ordering, but u nnnnnever know!
ugh okay vent over thanks if you got through all this!
That is absolutely rude and an added stress that you CLEARLY do not need to be dealing with. Davids Bridal can be funny with their stock and all of a sudden discontinue their styles.
Anywayz you need to call her out on this because she clearly doesn't seem like she wants to walk in your wedding.
I personally would tell her she's out just for the mere fact she LIED to your face, I wouldn't want someone like that in my wedding party.
Good luck!
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Def screwed up that she lied!!!!!! How does she get off doing that??? Did she think you would never find out?
