flower girl

Hey girls...maybe you can help me figure out something.

So FH and I already have 1 flower girl who will be 5yrs old on our wedding (she is a distantly related cousin but her family is close with mine). I already asked her and her mom and they are so excited!!

FH has a niece who will be 1 yr and 4months on our wedding. Should I ask her mom to dress her up like a flower girl and have a 2nd flower girl?? Keep in mind FSIL is in the wedding as a BM and so is her husband, FH's brother. Is our niece too young?? or should i just make sure there is another family member to take care of her during the wedding? i'd rather just keep it as the 1 flower girl but I dont want to hurt my FSIL and FBIL's feelings...but, they are BOTH in the wedding....

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Posted by sandybeaches115

Hey girls...maybe you can help me figure out something.

So FH and I already have 1 flower girl who will be 5yrs old on our wedding (she is a distantly related cousin but her family is close with mine). I already asked her and her mom and they are so excited!!

FH has a niece who will be 1 yr and 4months on our wedding. Should I ask her mom to dress her up like a flower girl and have a 2nd flower girl?? Keep in mind FSIL is in the wedding as a BM and so is her husband, FH's brother. Is our niece too young?? or should i just make sure there is another family member to take care of her during the wedding? i'd rather just keep it as the 1 flower girl but I dont want to hurt my FSIL and FBIL's feelings...but, they are BOTH in the wedding....

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I'd ask them 1st. they may want to leave her home.

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by sandybeaches115

Hey girls...maybe you can help me figure out something.

So FH and I already have 1 flower girl who will be 5yrs old on our wedding (she is a distantly related cousin but her family is close with mine). I already asked her and her mom and they are so excited!!

FH has a niece who will be 1 yr and 4months on our wedding. Should I ask her mom to dress her up like a flower girl and have a 2nd flower girl?? Keep in mind FSIL is in the wedding as a BM and so is her husband, FH's brother. Is our niece too young?? or should i just make sure there is another family member to take care of her during the wedding? i'd rather just keep it as the 1 flower girl but I dont want to hurt my FSIL and FBIL's feelings...but, they are BOTH in the wedding....

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I'd ask them 1st. they may want to leave her home.

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they definitely won't be leaving her home since they are coming from Puerto Rico and I just saw on fb pics the last 2 weddings they have gone to, they brought her along as a 8 month old.

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Posted by sandybeaches115

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Posted by allornil

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Posted by sandybeaches115

Hey girls...maybe you can help me figure out something.

So FH and I already have 1 flower girl who will be 5yrs old on our wedding (she is a distantly related cousin but her family is close with mine). I already asked her and her mom and they are so excited!!

FH has a niece who will be 1 yr and 4months on our wedding. Should I ask her mom to dress her up like a flower girl and have a 2nd flower girl?? Keep in mind FSIL is in the wedding as a BM and so is her husband, FH's brother. Is our niece too young?? or should i just make sure there is another family member to take care of her during the wedding? i'd rather just keep it as the 1 flower girl but I dont want to hurt my FSIL and FBIL's feelings...but, they are BOTH in the wedding....

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I'd ask them 1st. they may want to leave her home.

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they definitely won't be leaving her home since they are coming from Puerto Rico and I just saw on fb pics the last 2 weddings they have gone to, they brought her along as a 8 month old.

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oh ok. its far to travel and worry about your bay I guess.

Ask anyway. it may be cute to have a little kid in the BP. Otherwise, as a backup plan, have a family member slated to watch her.

2010er crashing ...

i would not have her be a flowergirl. she probably won't walk to you (she'll just stand there and possibly start crying)

i don't think her parents would get offended.

then again, i did not ask my future-nephew (he'll be a year and a half old at the wedding) to be a RB and it caused a bunch of drama ... that that's because his parents are ridiculous.