Flower girl and ringbearer at Rehearsal Dinner?

JessMxPx88 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 11:51 AM

Flower girl and ringbearer at Rehearsal Dinner?

Im starting to plan my rehearsal dinner and was wondering if the flower girl and the ringbearer are supposed to be at the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner? Both my flowergirl and ring bearer's parents will not be at the rehearsal as they are not in the wedding and not sure if they have to be there. Any one know??

MrsB2BE Posted: Mar 20, 2007 11:53 AM

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I would say yes they should be there because they are in the wedding and will be at the rehearsal. Our RB's mother is not in the wedding but we invited her to the dinner because her son is in the wedding. We did not want to deal with keeping up with the children at the rehearsal so we invited parents. Our FG is my niece and her father is in the wedding.

july06bride Posted: Mar 20, 2007 11:54 AM

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yes, the RB and FG should be there to rehearse and to celebrate after- they are part of the bridal party

ours came- and because they couldnt get there without their parents, their parents were invited as well

also, the FG's brother was invited- I couldn't leave him out-
RB doesn't have siblings

GinaZ Posted: Mar 20, 2007 11:54 AM

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Posted by JessMxPx88

Im starting to plan my rehearsal dinner and was wondering if the flower girl and the ringbearer are supposed to be at the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner? Both my flowergirl and ring bearer's parents will not be at the rehearsal as they are not in the wedding and not sure if they have to be there. Any one know??

you should invite them and their parents to the dinner.

Mikeysgirl Posted: Mar 20, 2007 12:42 PM

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I agree, they should be invited with their parents.

ssiegel23 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 12:44 PM

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Yes I agree...invite them as well as their parents. You want to make sure they know what to do on that big day as well.

ama1771 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 12:48 PM

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i'm inviting them to ours!

chellynyc Posted: Mar 20, 2007 01:50 PM

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Yes, because they will need to practice and then you will have to invite the parents too.

Kara and Todd Posted: Mar 20, 2007 01:51 PM

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Posted by GinaZ

Posted by JessMxPx88

Im starting to plan my rehearsal dinner and was wondering if the flower girl and the ringbearer are supposed to be at the rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner? Both my flowergirl and ring bearer's parents will not be at the rehearsal as they are not in the wedding and not sure if they have to be there. Any one know??

you should invite them and their parents to the dinner.

I agree.

They should be at the rehearsal as well.

Shellycakes123 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 02:06 PM

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i had mine, i also has nieces and nephews that wreent invited to the wedding, my inlaws paid so it was up to them

neener1211 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 02:25 PM

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we invited our fg's and their parents to the dinner

Espo22 Posted: Mar 20, 2007 02:29 PM

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I would say so, the fact that the parents have to go to rehearsals and buy a dress or tux they deserve to be there. Its kind of a thank you to them. Honestly it would be wrong not to invite them.

cbcf Posted: Mar 20, 2007 02:36 PM

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my RB and FG's parents are not in the wedding but FH and I are inviting them

1. the RB and FG are brother and sister
2. are only 4 and 6
3. those are the only two kids- so its only inviting 2 more people- their parents!

I would invite them