Flower girl/ ring bearer

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:02 PM

Flower girl/ ring bearer

Is it weird to have neither?
We dont have any small cousins or anyone really who could be a flower girl or a ring bearer.

T E R I Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:13 PM

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Posted by GonnaBeeMrsG

Is it weird to have neither?
We dont have any small cousins or anyone really who could be a flower girl or a ring bearer.

I don't think it is, we are not having them either. The only choices for us would be FH's niece and nephew and both the parents are in the wedding party, so I thought it would be too much having the kids included also.

StaceYums81 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:19 PM

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Well we were going to have FH nieces but we prob wont since she hates us now...

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:20 PM

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Posted by StaceYums81

Well we were going to have FH nieces but we prob wont since she hates us now...

I guess you will have to see if anything changes from now till then.

StaceYums81 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:22 PM

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I would like to ask my matron's daughter to be flower girl then...

MrsC2010 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:32 PM

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def not weird if you don't have one...i have seen several weddings without any....you only need to have them if there is someone you really want included.

grrulz Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:35 PM

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not weird at all i am not having one!

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Dec 28, 2008 08:41 PM

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thanks! Now I feel not weird about it!!

Christine N Ralph Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:03 PM

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I dont think its weird at all!!

mosh424 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:05 PM

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I don't think it is weird at all.....my brother didn't have any because we had no small kids in the family then but now I am having 2 FG and 2 RB because we have the little ones now

SummerBride10 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:10 PM

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I dont think its weird. Its better to have none then just pick some random little kid you know.

MrsL2010 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:14 PM

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i don't think it's weird. i'm not having either of them

marrymybestfriend Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:15 PM

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not weird... i think more weddings then not that i have attended DIDNT have them

RitasEngaged Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:18 PM

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It is not weird at all - I know a lot of people who have one or the other or neither

GonnaBeeMrsG Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:37 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

I dont think its weird. Its better to have none then just pick some random little kid you know.

I agree!

FallBride2010 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:58 PM

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alot of people dont have them. my sister didnt and the wedding i went to last night didnt. the only reason I am is b/c FH has a daughter and son

JenBill61210 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 09:59 PM

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we are not having one because there isn't anyone in our family that would be young enough to be a RB or FG.... instead we are having junior BM's and junior GM

mAndm2010 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 10:06 PM

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I'm still up in the air about it...If we do have any, it will probably only be flowergirls, with my twin cousins fulfilling the roles...but they will be 8 by then and they are a little out of control so Im not sure hehe.... I dont think it is weird to have neither