Flower Girl/Ring Bearer HELP!!!!!!!!

I do not have any children on my side of the family which is OK b/c my FH has more cousins than I know what to do with.

1st he has 3 cousins which are 2 boys and a girl and they are brothers and sisters they are all in there 30's and each have 2 sets children that range from 3 mos up to 7 years old, keep in mind that I am getting married November '04. All on his father's side.

2nd on his mother's side he as 2 first cousins both girls will be 4 and 12 when I get married.

I do not know what to do with all these children and it make it worse that my FH was a groomsman in all of these weddings.

HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPP!

Is there any one child or children that you guys of your FI feels close too?
If so then I would pick them otherwise do you have have any friends with kids? That would make it an easier decison and not have to choose between family memebers.
I hope I helped a little.

We are the first of all of our friends to get married so these are the children we have to pick from and I feel as though since my FH was in all of these weddings that we should have a least one child from each family to be in ours. It would be better if there were some more girls then I could have each girl walk down the aisle with two boys.