flower girls... your opinion?

Okay, I really wanted to include all the little girls in my family in wedding party.

I haven't officially asked them to be flower girls, but they know they will be part of it somehow.

I do not want them to wear all white, but then do they all wear the same thing, same color?

My colors are leaning towards apple green, fuschia, mango.. see my crazy wedding colors in album.

And do you still call a 10 year old a a flower girl, or am I pushing boundaries into junior bridesamaid?

Can I have a flower girl queen? I mean how do I make it sound like a cute and fun job, to a self respecting 10 year old?

The other ages are 8, 5, 4

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Posted by yswedding

Okay, I really wanted to include all the little girls in my family in wedding party.

I haven't officially asked them to be flower girls, but they know they will be part of it somehow.

I do not want them to wear all white, but then do they all wear the same thing, same color?

My colors are leaning towards apple green, fuschia, mango.. see my crazy wedding colors in album.

And do you still call a 10 year old a a flower girl, or am I pushing boundaries into junior bridesamaid?

Can I have a flower girl queen? I mean how do I make it sound like a cute and fun job, to a self respecting 10 year old?

The other ages are 8, 5, 4

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I would have them wear the same color or just the same style perhaps? I had only one FG but I had her in a white/victorian lilac dress to match the bridesmaids/MoH... the dress was corset string back to match my gown. I would say the 8, 5 and 4 year olds can be the right ages for FG.

I think a 10 year old can be a junior bridesmaid.. imo that's a bit too old for a FG...if possible have her in a version of the bridesmaids dresses. Most desingers offer the 'junior' bridesmaid version of the bridesmaid dresses.

Well, there is another twist to this...

I originally didn't even want any bridesmaids, just flower girls...

I got really teary eyed on day and told my best friend I want her to be standing with me, etc etc... so now I have 1 maid of honor and bunch of little girls...

I want the maid of honor to match best man and wear navy. Keep it sophisticated with the funky colors.

Junior bridesmaids can be paired (8 and 10) can wear what color?

And the two litte ones can be paired (4 and 5) and wear, what color?

The smallest one does not want to wear white. or at least her mom doesn't want her too, so I'm stuck.