Flowergirl question

I have a dilemma.
I want to ask my girls to be in my bridal party this weekend.
I have it all planned out.
But I don't know what to do about the flowergirls.
I am going to ask my adult girls with a poem in a 'Will you be my...' card.
I have the cards for the flowergirls but do I use the same poems? They can't read the poems. I am stuck. I have the cards all ready to go but they are blank inside.
Any thoughts?
I also have a embroidered shirts for them and the flowergirls also have picture books where the main characters all are flowergirls in a wedding.

maybe you could give the card to the flowergirls parent to read to them . . . or you could read the card to them

if i were in your shoes i'd give the card to the parent and show the picture book to the girls and ask them if they'd be your flowergirl when ur done reading through the picture book


hope that's helpful!

I would def ask parents first and then sit with each of them and explain what you want them to do.

The flowergirls are my three neices.
My sisters already know that I planned on having them in the wedding party.
My sisters assume they are going to be in the wedding party too.

I sent a 'will you be my flowergirl' card to 'the parents of...' and her mom said yes.