FMIL advice
thanks girlss
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FMIL advice
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what is future hubby's stance on that? there are definitely ways of reaching out to her to update her once and a while via email. but no numbers have to be spoken of. 'oh hi, we picked this for favors ... what do you think of a mother/daughter dance song ... what dress color are you thinking of' that sort of thing!
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Posted by CantWaitMrsH
what is future hubby's stance on that? there are definitely ways of reaching out to her to update her once and a while via email. but no numbers have to be spoken of. 'oh hi, we picked this for favors ... what do you think of a mother/daughter dance song ... what dress color are you thinking of' that sort of thing!
welll I'm asking what you ladies think I should do, I guess I could do those things but with her lack of interest/involvement/paying I feel im barking up the wrong tree?
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Well I would just leave it alone but that is just me. FILs are the most quiet people and never ask me anything about the wedding. I know he mom appreciates it when I tell her things when I see her but she never asks (not due to lack of intrest I just think b/c we are paying she does not want to state an opinion)
But if FH did not have a real relationship with her and he didn't care I would probably not say anything unless she asked.
But if FH did not have a real relationship with her and he didn't care I would probably not say anything unless she asked.
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If u have already establish a somewhat relationship and had ask her for suggestions for the wedding..then u did ur part and u shouldn't feel guilty about it..it's not on u anymore
