FMIL (stepmother), was telling me all about FIs ex girlfriend tongiht, how wonderful..

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 08:56 PM

FMIL (stepmother), was telling me all about FIs ex girlfriend tongiht, how wonderful..

she was, and beautiful, etc.

She pulled the same sh it last week, telling me how one of his other ex girlfriends is/was so wonderful!

(FI wasn't home when she did this...she called me).

As I write this, FI is so angry, he's freaking out on her right now!

I know we all have a past, I sure have mine, but I think she's being so rude.

Marcela1654 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 08:57 PM

Re: FMIL (stepmother), was telling me all about FIs ex girlfriend tongiht, how wonderful..

W T F

That is RUDE!

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:00 PM

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And she went on and on and on and on and on about ex-girlfriend #2.

I had to hear how great they were together, how SHE WAS THE BEST PERSON FOR HIM.

I was trying to be the better person, and not let her think it was getting to me, because that's what she wanted, and I don't feel it's my place to tell her off, that's FIs, which he's doing right now.

Marcela1654 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:01 PM

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I agree, it's good that you didn't let her think it was bothering you. She must have felt like an idiot!
And I'm glad your FH is doing something about this!

KathleenG Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:03 PM

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Completely inappropriate! There HAS to be something wrong with the woman! IMO

Marcela1654 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:04 PM

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I wonder what excuse she's going to give your FH for this She's probably going to play the innocent act.

KarenG Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:05 PM

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Do you think she is threatened by you?

Did she have a special relationship with these women?

Haven't you 2 been together for several years now? Has she always been this way?

This is clearly her issue, not yours. She is a very small person.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this.

aliciahelene Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:06 PM

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That is horribly rude..odnt let it get to you though...it doesnt matter how she was or what she looks like..YOU are the one marrying him!!

HeatherandNick Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:08 PM

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that is so not nice

OctBride05 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:21 PM

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thats so rude

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:30 PM

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The nerve

Kathy116 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:35 PM

Re: FMIL (stepmother), was telling me all about FIs ex girlfriend tongiht, how wonderful..

FI and I have been together for about 5 years, these women he dated she only met once, and she had NO relationship with them

And these women he dated are from like 15 years ago! (FI is much older than me ), one was in Italy, and one was in Finland (he lived in Italy for about 7 years).

She was just trying to be annoying.

FI has always told me that she's not playing with a full deck, and he's right.

But it's still not something you want to hear, even if she has the excuse of insanity.

Alvatorre74 Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:38 PM

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What nerve i would tell her that I do not care to hear about his exes

JuneBabyBride Posted: Jul 23, 2003 09:48 PM

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That was very wrong of her, how could you do that to your future daughter in law, mean biatch!!

allure Posted: Jul 23, 2003 10:15 PM

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Blow this crazed old Buzzard Off
The nerve
At least Fh is in your corner

Jordan Posted: Jul 23, 2003 10:16 PM

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Oh that is just so rude!

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:32 AM

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very rude...
id probably say something like ' i guess they weren't good enough if he's marrying me and not them'

swags1016 Posted: Jul 24, 2003 12:55 AM

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OMG where does this woman come off? Has she even seen what a stunning looking woman you are? Is she crazy? Has she seen what a BEAUTIFUL home that you and FI have created together.

It is great that he is putting her in her place. Get caller ID don't answer the phone when she calls. And Most of all IGNORE THAT CRAZY FOOL!

The egging patrol has your back if you want!!!