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FMIL vent!

halfbaked Posted:

FMIL vent!

I'm really getting sick and effing tired of FMIL blaming me for all the invite issues we're having. I had asked her time and time again to sit down and go through the guest list. We finally did and she would give me names like 'Bernie and Mike'. I need their titles, first & last names, how you want it addressed, and their addresses. She had no addresses for me. I had to get most of them myself. The only ones she got for me were the international addresses (since I've only ever met about half of these people). She still gave me names like 'B. Carroll'- I still don't know if this person is a man or a woman- then proceeded to roll her eyes and tell me to print them again when I got their titles wrong. I told her no, send it as is, I have no more labels. NOW, she tells me that I must've printed the addresses wrong for the people from England because they never received their invites. Well, I used the exact same master sheet from the STDs and they got there just fine. Mind you, FMIL actually MAILED the international invites herself, but no, it must've been MY mistake, not hers. Now she tells me 'Hey did you invite Aunt Eileen?' My response was 'Was she on the list? No? Then of course not!' So I have to send out MORE invites now and it's nearly a month til the wedding. She's effing killing me!!!!

Thank you if you actually made it through that! LOL! You deserve a medal.
flibbertigibbet Posted:

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um. been there done that.
people are tards.
halfbaked Posted:

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One of these days, I'm gonna flip on her like I did in the beginning. It got her off my back for a few mos., all I need is one more month, for my sanity's sake!

FallBride2010 Posted:

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I feel bad for you! I would make her do it all herself at this point

summerbride20 Posted:

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Yeah, really, inviting people a month before the wedding. thats odd. im in arguments every day with my own mother. she is the only one causing me drama.

halfbaked Posted:

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Posted by mermaid20

Yeah, really, inviting people a month before the wedding. thats odd. im in arguments every day with my own mother. she is the only one causing me drama.



I know! She wants me to lie and say it got sent back b/c it was addressed wrong. Sure, blame it on me, why not?!

Sorry you're dealing with drama, too!
jackieee Posted:

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wow~!!! im so sorry. that is beyond frustrating! Is there anyone else in his family that can give you addresses? Like a sister or brother that got married recently?

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