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FMIL Vent

Thats-What-She-Said Posted:

FMIL Vent

When making the guest list there were huge, HUGE issues because her cousins HAD to be invited. Even though I had never met them. Blah Blah Blah FH upset because my 2nd cousins who I have a relationship were invited, but his weren't and yada yada yada.

I cave and all of these people are invited. FMIL is finally happy. Fast forward to today. Out of 11 No's 8 of them are her people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We could have invited our friends, but no we had to make FMIL happy and invite her people who aren't coming. It is to late to send out B list invites.

I'm just really pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
merbride Posted:

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I think your friends would understand if you said look we luckily have some openings and we would love for you to come!

Moonmist09 Posted:

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not too late, send them out asap and then call and find out if they can come!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Are these people you can call and let them know your invite got lost in the mail and send out??

adelz Posted:

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That stinks. What if you call the B List people and just say something like your invites got mixed up and you just realized they didn't go out to them, especially if you really want them to be there...Not sure if that breaks all wedding etiquette...
IrishAli Posted:

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Posted by adelz

That stinks. What if you call the B List people and just say something like your invites got mixed up and you just realized they didn't go out to them, especially if you really want them to be there...Not sure if that breaks all wedding etiquette...



This!
sbarclay2 Posted:

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Posted by adelz

That stinks. What if you call the B List people and just say something like your invites got mixed up and you just realized they didn't go out to them, especially if you really want them to be there...Not sure if that breaks all wedding etiquette...



ITA
MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted:

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Posted by sbarclay2



Posted by adelz

That stinks. What if you call the B List people and just say something like your invites got mixed up and you just realized they didn't go out to them, especially if you really want them to be there...Not sure if that breaks all wedding etiquette...



ITA



ITA too

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