FML
I can't fuking win with FH's family. My MOH's are planning my bridal shower and they decided no children, just the women. FSIL asked if she could bring her kids and I tell her my MOH's would prefer only adults so the focus is on the bride. Indian people have to invite everyone and their mother to everything, bridal showers, baby showers, etc. FSIL calls her mom to complain about this and now everyone is pissed off at me. FMIL is like I'm not going if my grandchildren aren't allowed and FSIL was like oh it was like a slap in the face when I told her no kids. I did end up telling she can bring her children but they are making such a fuking big deal about it. And to make matters worse they drag FH into.
It's my bridal shower, they are not paying for anything. Typically a bridal shower is just women anyway so W T F. I told FH, I don't want to talk to his mom or sister and that they are acting stupid. So now, I have the added stress of them b!tching about my bridal shower. I told FH tell them don't come and return whatever gifts they have for me, I don't want it. I can't catch a break with these people. Everything has to be the Indian way, I'm not Indian and I'm not going to play by their stupid rules.
So FMIL and FSIL thanks for a great start to my week and an even better end to my Monday night. FML.![]()
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It's my bridal shower, they are not paying for anything. Typically a bridal shower is just women anyway so W T F. I told FH, I don't want to talk to his mom or sister and that they are acting stupid. So now, I have the added stress of them b!tching about my bridal shower. I told FH tell them don't come and return whatever gifts they have for me, I don't want it. I can't catch a break with these people. Everything has to be the Indian way, I'm not Indian and I'm not going to play by their stupid rules.
So FMIL and FSIL thanks for a great start to my week and an even better end to my Monday night. FML.
