anyone do it yet? FH and I really dont want to go but unfortunatley, we have to. oh well, i will let you know how it goes.
let us know how it goes! i think we have to do that but im not sure when...i think the winter time?? i should prob find that out
Ours doesn't start til November. Good luck. Can't wait to here how it was.
Good Luck. Let us know how it goes
We are doing precana this fall...let us know how it is!
Did it. It is a piece of cake if you and your FH have talked about most things. Some of the questions are slightly concerning like: I am scared of my future partner- agree or disagree. But for the most part it is no big deal. The pre-canna ppl at our church didn't even look at our results. They only people that saw them were FH and I. Ours was 2 sessions. the first week we took the test. The next week we got the results. It breaks everything down by category so when you look at your results page it will say something like Financial Issues- agree 100% Religion and Values- agree 89%.
Posted by mirlynn324
Did it. It is a piece of cake if you and your FH have talked about most things. Some of the questions are slightly concerning like: I am scared of my future partner- agree or disagree. But for the most part it is no big deal. The pre-canna ppl at our church didn't even look at our results. They only people that saw them were FH and I. Ours was 2 sessions. the first week we took the test. The next week we got the results. It breaks everything down by category so when you look at your results page it will say something like Financial Issues- agree 100% Religion and Values- agree 89%.
Glad it went well. Thanks for posting this. I think it will make everyone at ease before they have to go. I know it did for me.
we have to go back to the church in January to discuss more details and to find out about precana... my girlfriend got married in the same church and said it wasn't so bad..
Posted by Mimacat
FH and I already did ours, and let me tell you what he did! Theres a question that says 'My Future spouse acts inappropriately when he/she takes drugs or alcholol.' HE PUTS UNSURE.
He says 'well you dont do drugs or alcohol so how woudl I know if you act inappropriate.'![]()
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FH and I went to take our 'test' about a month ago and two weeks after that, we met with a couple from the church (at their house) to discuss any questions that we answered differently. We were a little nervous about it, since it feels like you're being put on the spot, but we were only there for about 45 mins and at least now we have a better idea of where we both stand on certain issues. If anything, it just helps you talk and work out things that you may not have thought about before. Can't hurt to cover all your bases! The last thing you want is to come across an issue 5 years from now and realize that you're on two different pages, you know?
Posted by Mimacat
FH and I already did ours, and let me tell you what he did! Theres a question that says 'My Future spouse acts inappropriately when he/she takes drugs or alcholol.' HE PUTS UNSURE.
He says 'well you dont do drugs or alcohol so how woudl I know if you act inappropriate.'![]()
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Posted by Mimacat
FH and I already did ours, and let me tell you what he did! Theres a question that says 'My Future spouse acts inappropriately when he/she takes drugs or alcholol.' HE PUTS UNSURE.
He says 'well you dont do drugs or alcohol so how woudl I know if you act inappropriate.'![]()
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I didnt know what this was, untill I read the thread! See that you learn something new everyday!
