FOR ALL PAST BRIDES..

Mitabtrfly Posted: Jul 13, 2006 11:43 PM

FOR ALL PAST BRIDES..

When you hit the '3 month mark' (which I hit today), did you find that you were getting more nervous? I'm finding it hard to eat, sleep, work. I seem to have nothing but wedding on the mind all day. I still have so much to do..and noticed that I have not been eating alot. Is this normal?

Mitabtrfly Posted: Jul 14, 2006 12:18 AM

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bump

BKtoLI Posted: Jul 14, 2006 01:22 AM

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Yup and it continues until you hit the 'I don't give a cluck' stage which happens somewhere around 1 month - days before.

You just get to a point where you don't care what happens, you just want to get married and have everything over and done with so you can get on with married life!!!

Mitabtrfly Posted: Jul 14, 2006 07:56 AM

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anyone else...???

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Jul 14, 2006 08:14 AM

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Yes, about 1-3 months before the wedding I was really nervous and stressed. I didn't sleep well. I never have problems eating though Kind of wish I did... But it gets better. As you get things done, and things become more real (a few days before) it becomes more natural and you start to relax.

soon2bcopswife Posted: Jul 14, 2006 08:43 AM

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I woke up in the middle of the night like 3 times EVERY NIGHT till the wedding by the 3 month mark. But then miraculously...you don't care, you get the attitude that whatever happens will happen.

I know everything seems overwhelming now, but in the end, no one will notice the little things....don't stress yourself out. No one wants to be sick for their wedding.

Mitabtrfly Posted: Jul 14, 2006 08:54 AM

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Posted by soon2bcopswife

I woke up in the middle of the night like 3 times EVERY NIGHT till the wedding by the 3 month mark. But then miraculously...you don't care, you get the attitude that whatever happens will happen.

I know everything seems overwhelming now, but in the end, no one will notice the little things....don't stress yourself out. No one wants to be sick for their wedding.

I know..that's how I feel. I am sleeping..but going to sleep later every night. I wake up at 5am..so that's not good. I noticed yesterday was the first time in a long time that I actually laid down on the couch and relaxed. I am excited about the wedding..but honestly wish I had the money to have someone do all the running around for me...because WOW..it's NON STOP!

soon2bcopswife Posted: Jul 14, 2006 09:11 AM

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I totally know the feeling. But really, you save so much money by doing it yourself and the peace of mind knowing it's done correctly. Try and pace yourself so you don't burn out and make time for yourself and have 'wedding free' days. It really helps.

hsacks23r Posted: Jul 14, 2006 09:27 AM

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I was not that nervous thr the whole process even up untill the day..... we had made sure we gave our selves the right amoutn of time to get things done, ofcours DH dragged his but on something and ofcures there were times of stress but you get thru it all

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jul 14, 2006 09:47 AM

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NOt really. Honestly, I never really got nervous except for a few butterflies in the limo on the way to the wedding.
I did start feeling really stressed out around the 1-month mark though. At that point it felt like we didn't have enough time to do things that needed to get done.

FallBride05 Posted: Jul 14, 2006 10:18 AM

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Nope...never had the nervous feeling at all. I was a little high strung around the 8 week mark when we were sending out the invites, but that was about it.

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 14, 2006 10:52 AM

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not at the 3 month mark, cu I was only half-way through planning by then. I did, however have a complete meltdown about 2 weeks before the wedding when we started to write the *big* checks for the hall, etc. Of course it all worked out in the end but I had never paid cash for something so expensive before & it freaked me out a lot.

BTW - day of the wedding I was so calm my make-up artist asked me if I took anything to relax. (which I had not, I was just happy & excited to get married!)