For anyone with Bridal Party problems...

Are the BM or MOH that are giving you probems already married themselves? I am wondring b/c all of mine are married and they are not giving me any problems (YET).

I am wondering if it's b/c they know what it's like to be a bride dealing with annoying BMs???


ETA- now watch, since I posted this, all my BM will develope problems all of a sudden

i think that DEFINITELY HELPS! LOL

my MOH is already married and my BM is getting married six weeks before me - the mothers of my Jr BMs and FGs are also married. . . i think that DEFINITELY HELPS!!! lol

however, i have been in a million weddings ( obviously before my own ) and i was always the BEST BM (if i do say so myself) I was usually the first to get the dress, i wore whatever they wanted, showed up wherever they wanted me, and never complained about expenses! What is wrong with some of these people - its not that difficult!

I agree, I think it def. helps alot as well. All of mine are married except for my younger sister. They know what I'm going through because they've been there and are just trying to make it as easy as possible.
Also, I think it helps on my end that I've been in most of their weddings as a BM and am pretty much the last of my girlfriends to get married....so it helps for me to keep things in perspective. I realize that alot, and I mean ALOT of the little things that I might have thought were a such a huge deal a few years ago, really aren't. Most little things no one really notices but the bride. Not saying they're not important or that you shouldn't do all those little things if you want to, but just that if the little things don't work out, in the end it's no big thing.