Unfortunetly on the flowers will help and my mom refuses to let me do them myself. I did manage to find a photographer that was cheaper than some of the others, I found him b/c he did my MatOH wedding this year and her pics were so great and he was so good, that I didn't look at anyone else. I always wanted the church wedding, etc. but was willing to do the ceremony at the hall. Again Mom and FMIL stepped in and said 'NO' Which would have saved us money b/c then there wouldn't be limos.
Thank you for the help! I always love hearing ideas on how to save my mom some money. I just wish I had found it earlier!