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for girls with very large bridal parties...

Original post by ttdiff11

how much are u spending on each bm? if u dont mind me asking lol.i have 12 girls and i wanna order necklaces and give them each an ornament but i dunno if thats enough? i wanna get my 2 moh's soemthing extra though.

eta: there are alot of girls so im not trying to spend too much on each thing! ah.
jennaandguy09 Posted:

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I have 9 girls....I held a bridesmaid luncheon and gave all of them compact mirrors, then I'm doing bouquet jewelry plus DO earrings, I also did a necklace for my MOH and honestly, I'm out of money I can't afford to do anymore, I thought of tote bags or something but it's getting to be too much. Don't do more than you can. Thats the only advice I can give you, good luck!!!

Dani777 Posted:

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I have a verry large BP... 5 kids and 5 adults. 2 of the 5 adults are my MOHs..LOL. Here's what I got...
Swarvorski necklaces for day of...
Tote bags with bunch of little things for pampering and what=nots lol
Picutre frame so they can pick whatever pic they want from the wedding
Paying for half their hair
Tank tops for the morning getting ready

Just get some little things ... or even scrap books if you don't think that's enough. I spent about $80 on each girl... that's not including the hair part. LOL
frescelena Posted:

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I have 8 girls, 2jrs,one fg & usher & ring bearer. I got the girls swarovski neckalces which were on sale a few weeks ago, you might want to check out their sale! I really can't spend more than $65 ea which covered the necklaces but will prob get them something extra, not sure what tho...waiting for the right thing t find me! But I don't think more is expected or mandatory. I've been in a S**tload of weddings and I always only got a necklace to wear the day of! So do what you can! good luck!
HappyBride22 Posted:

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I have 10 girls + 2 flower girls , I got the lands end bags with their names, flip flops that match their dresses (shhh Hillary) , I am still going to spend like 20 or so on earings for each girl. If I am in the mood I might get them each a beach towel to make a beach themed bag. I didnt spend all the money at once so it isnt too bad.

Dani777 Posted:

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Yeah, I didn't spend all the money at once either...that's what made it seem like I didnt' spend that much. When I was going to go buy something else, FH had to stop me....he told me to start worrying about ME hahha...since it's MY wedding. Just get them what you can afford and you'll make them plenty happy.
ttdiff11 Posted:

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Posted by Dani777

Yeah, I didn't spend all the money at once either...that's what made it seem like I didnt' spend that much. When I was going to go buy something else, FH had to stop me....he told me to start worrying about ME hahha...since it's MY wedding. Just get them what you can afford and you'll make them plenty happy.





if u dont mind me asking, what did u get them?
Dani777 Posted:

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Posted by ttdiff11


Posted by Dani777

Yeah, I didn't spend all the money at once either...that's what made it seem like I didnt' spend that much. When I was going to go buy something else, FH had to stop me....he told me to start worrying about ME hahha...since it's MY wedding. Just get them what you can afford and you'll make them plenty happy.





if u dont mind me asking, what did u get them?



I have a verry large BP... 5 kids and 5 adults. 2 of the 5 adults are my MOHs..LOL. Here's what I got...
Swarvorski necklaces for day of...
Tote bags with bunch of little things for pampering and what=nots lol
Picutre frame so they can pick whatever pic they want from the wedding
Paying for half their hair
Tank tops for the morning getting ready
Need to find something 'extra' for my MOHs
Getting stuffed bears for my FGs and RB...prolly from build a bear
And iPod shuffles for the Junior GM.

Just get some little things ... or even scrap books if you don't think that's enough. I spent about $80 on each girl... that's not including the hair part. LOL
I'm spoliling them...HAHA> FH told me to chill. HAHA Ooops.
Brat23 Posted:

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I also have 12 girls 2 FG and 1 Jr BM I got them all jewlery necklace and earing sets from Kohls about $10 each.

A movie that is meaningful between us like 1 girl got Steel Magnolias another got breakfast club etc....

I got them all BM zip ups from Victorias secret cheap like $10
kellylee418 Posted:

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I have 8 girls and am spending about $75-100 on each. I got them swaroski necklaces so far and not sure what else I am getting.

Oh and my mom did this for me but she found photo albums for really cheap at bed bath and beyond so I will give them an album at the rehearsal dinner with bachelorette party pics, shower pics, and other fun wedding pics that I have at the time.
rerejohn2009 Posted:

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i have a very large bridal party and i chose it to be so large so i feel like i can't be cheap. The girls are doing so much.
i have 10 bm's 1 fg and 3 jr's

my moh (my sister)not sure what im getting some of earrings or bracelet

the 8 mb's i boiught them coach sunglasses
the 10th girl which is my cousin from italy and i paid for her dress i got her a coach wristlet

the flower girl i bought an americal girl doll
and the jr's i also paid for the dress'

and the 9 guys i bought coach wallets
yikes! im broke

and the best man were getitng him a laptop
elysemichelle Posted:

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Posted by endlesslove116

where did you get the coach wristlets for 36 bucks?? that is a GREAT price!




At the Coach outlet in Riverhead, I got pink wristlets for $17.50 each. That's right. $17.50!! They were a clearance item. Crazy! But anyway, they always have great deals on wristlets out there, it's worth the trip!



Thats insane!!!!!!!!!!!!! i so want to go there!!!!!!!!!!! i think thats a plan for next week
elysemichelle Posted:

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Posted by Brat23

I also have 12 girls 2 FG and 1 Jr BM I got them all jewlery necklace and earing sets from Kohls about $10 each.

A movie that is meaningful between us like 1 girl got Steel Magnolias another got breakfast club etc....

I got them all BM zip ups from Victorias secret cheap like $10



They had them already made at Victorias?!
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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i have 6 girls. not sure on what im doing yet, but im not going to be going crazy, im not rockafeller

missjones2007 Posted:

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well i had 5 but kicked one out so i have 4....i got them personalized tote bags with jewelry and smell goods in it

elysemichelle Posted:

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I have 8 bridesmaids, a maid of honor and a mini maid of honor. So far i have bought my bridesmaids and MOH and mini MOH sets of pearls each, that were originally $200 a piece, i got them for $45 a piece. I have bought the 2 flower girls beautiful crystal and pearl headpieces that ran about $75 a piece. I still have to get MOH and mini MOH somethng else. and i am planning to get the flower girls lockets thanking them on the backs, and prob with a photo of them on one side when we tried on dresses and a photo of FH and i on the other. Hvent decided def. I also havent decided if im just going to use the head [pieces for the 2 MOH's as they are big enough that they could work. Maybe ill get them the coach wristlets.....lol so much to think about!!!!!!!!!!!!1

FH is planning to spoil his boys. He feels a need to one-up them since they all are getting married or have been married in the past 2 years (except like 3) and he has 7 groomsmen and a best man and 2 ring bearers. He is planning to go to Bvlgari for them. The last few weddings hes been in hes gotten a coach wallet, a coach scarf, a coach travel tote filled with mens stuff, a gold clock and tiffanys cuff links.....yes hes been in many weddings! hahaha

I also love the build a bear idea!!! if i can get FH to go for it, i would def get the FG's build a bears that say thank you for being our flower girl! oyyy we are spending so much! (thats the jewish in me comming out hahaha : oyyy )

Hope i helped!
Joe and Erica Posted:

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I have 9 girls as well and I went to woodbury commons and did some shopping. I dont think the amount matters- its really the thought that counts!
mf2009 Posted:

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I have 11 girls, 9 BM and two MOH's. I don't have a set price point but I know I can't afford to splurge.

I will be giving them all a pretty picture frame and they will have individual pics taken the day of by the photographer and probably flip flops for the day of.

I will also be getting my MOH something extra like diamond earrings (maybe hoops from like Macy's) If it's in my budget I will do monogramed tote bags.

My girls aren't even expecting anything, they are just happy to be walking in my wedding.

Don't go crazy if you can't afford it especially not on stuff that they may not even use.

Good luck!
endlesslove116 Posted:

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i was also thinking of giving my little bride an american girl doll and the jr bm, the fg already has one! but i dont know if a 3 year old would appreciate an american girl doll, if shes maybe too little to have that?? but the jr bm i think would love it.. if you dont mind me asking, how much do american girl dolls go for??

endlesslove116 Posted:

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i didnt know victoria secret sells bm zip ups!! they had them already made or you ordered them??

endlesslove116 Posted:

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fh i think is getting his guys either coach wallets or money clips.. its funny cause those are the 2 most popular groom gifts! i dont know if fh wants to give them a little something else with the wallet or money clip, but for the guys i think 1 thing is enough.. lol!!

its funny how us girls go crazy and we give the girls more than ONE thing and the guys always get only ONE thing.. haha!

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