Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
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what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
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what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
awww....
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what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
awww....
he also loves you hubby--sometimes i think they make out with each other
MeaganAndJoeC
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what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
awww....
he also loves you hubby--sometimes i think they make out with each other
the giggling gets a little out of control !! Were lucky they like eachother though
hwolf812
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what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
awww....
he also loves you hubby--sometimes i think they make out with each other
the giggling gets a little out of control !! Were lucky they like eachother though
ahhhh the giggling. and the dancing at the wedding? why were they slow dancing with each other? can we discuss that?
what i like the most is having him there with me--it comforts me. the thing i hate the most is having him there with me--sometimes im like i need 5 minutes!!!! he also helps out around the place a lot--hes very handy and helps me clean. hes great!
awww....
he also loves you hubby--sometimes i think they make out with each other
the giggling gets a little out of control !! Were lucky they like eachother though
ahhhh the giggling. and the dancing at the wedding? why were they slow dancing with each other? can we discuss that?
yeah they traded us in your eachother.. I dont blame them.. hehe
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Dh and I have now lived together for almost 5 years so I think we are pros.
What I love most about living together is just becoming closer and learning all the things about each other that you would NEVER know if you did not live together.
What I dislike most about us living together is he always somehow has control of the remote control. Thank god for dvr or it would be sports all the time for me lol
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Dh and I have now lived together for almost 5 years so I think we are pros.
What I love most about living together is just becoming closer and learning all the things about each other that you would NEVER know if you did not live together.
What I dislike most about us living together is he always somehow has control of the remote control. Thank god for dvr or it would be sports all the time for me lol
what is their obsession with the remote.. I used to joke iwth DH that when we lived togethetr I would have teh remote and sit at the head of the table!!!!
del Rio
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What do you like most about living with him ?
What do you like the least about living with him?
Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
I have to agree on the decor part because we do his all the time! I place something in a certain place and I walk back in the room and DH moves it! Especially with pictures he does this to me and it drives me insane!!
DH has discovered he has issues with cleaning and OCD. Our house can be swept, vacummed, dusted, and cloroxed wherever possible on a daily basis and its never enough for him! It's become a little overwhelming for me.
I also understand the whole living together for the first time its our first too. I dormed for most of college and DH had his own apartment at his parents, but we never lived together.
Everything else is just peachy as well!!
MeaganAndJoeC
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What do you like most about living with him ?
What do you like the least about living with him?
Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
I have to agree on the decor part because we do his all the time! I place something in a certain place and I walk back in the room and DH moves it! Especially with pictures he does this to me and it drives me insane!!
DH has discovered he has issues with cleaning and OCD. Our house can be swept, vacummed, dusted, and cloroxed wherever possible on a daily basis and its never enough for him! It's become a little overwhelming for me.
I also understand the whole living together for the first time its our first too. I dormed for most of college and DH had his own apartment at his parents, but we never lived together.
Everything else is just peachy as well!!
some people say I shouldnt complain but sometimes i want to be like who is the girl in this relationship.... its my job ! Just protect me and stop talking.. heheh
del Rio
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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
What do you like most about living with him ?
What do you like the least about living with him?
Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
I have to agree on the decor part because we do his all the time! I place something in a certain place and I walk back in the room and DH moves it! Especially with pictures he does this to me and it drives me insane!!
DH has discovered he has issues with cleaning and OCD. Our house can be swept, vacummed, dusted, and cloroxed wherever possible on a daily basis and its never enough for him! It's become a little overwhelming for me.
I also understand the whole living together for the first time its our first too. I dormed for most of college and DH had his own apartment at his parents, but we never lived together.
Everything else is just peachy as well!!
some people say I shouldnt complain but sometimes i want to be like who is the girl in this relationship.... its my job ! Just protect me and stop talking.. heheh
I get it cus sometimes I tell people DH was the bride I am the groom. At the last minute I decided I didn't want chair covers at our reception and DH really wanted them and was like no way no how! I was like ssheesh FINE! In the end he finally agreed with me that it would make the room look different with our CPs and I got my way!
MeaganAndJoeC
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Posted by del Rio
Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
Posted by del Rio
Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
What do you like most about living with him ?
What do you like the least about living with him?
Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
I have to agree on the decor part because we do his all the time! I place something in a certain place and I walk back in the room and DH moves it! Especially with pictures he does this to me and it drives me insane!!
DH has discovered he has issues with cleaning and OCD. Our house can be swept, vacummed, dusted, and cloroxed wherever possible on a daily basis and its never enough for him! It's become a little overwhelming for me.
I also understand the whole living together for the first time its our first too. I dormed for most of college and DH had his own apartment at his parents, but we never lived together.
Everything else is just peachy as well!!
some people say I shouldnt complain but sometimes i want to be like who is the girl in this relationship.... its my job ! Just protect me and stop talking.. heheh
I get it cus sometimes I tell people DH was the bride I am the groom. At the last minute I decided I didn't want chair covers at our reception and DH really wanted them and was like no way no how! I was like ssheesh FINE! In the end he finally agreed with me that it would make the room look different with our CPs and I got my way!
with men like ours we need to pick our battles
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most- i dont have to travel 2 hours to see him anymore lol... no but most- he does laundry love it! least - he leaves things everywhere ugh! And im OCD and can't leave it there to teach him a lesson.
Jenn04
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Yes my DH is a neatnick too! He is always on top of the cleaning and laudry etc! Its great but also hard bc I am cluttery sometimes.
Anyway - we have lived together 1 1/2 years and my favorite part of the day is coming home and seeing his smiling face! We always take a few minutes to hug and I sit in his lap and we cuddle!
Hardest thing was decorating and my spending habits!
del Rio
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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
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Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
Posted by del Rio
Posted by MeaganAndJoeC
What do you like most about living with him ?
What do you like the least about living with him?
Being that we were together for almost 10 yrs and never lived together I can finally answer this question now that we are living together.
so far its been peachy.. bc its only been a week and DH is a firefighter so he did overnights two days this week ..
What I like the most is having our own living room to hangout in and not have to be in either my bedroom or his all the time. We enjoy just hanging out
what I like the least is that he is very opinionated when it comes to designing our house and we sometimes argue before we make an agreement on decor.
I have to agree on the decor part because we do his all the time! I place something in a certain place and I walk back in the room and DH moves it! Especially with pictures he does this to me and it drives me insane!!
DH has discovered he has issues with cleaning and OCD. Our house can be swept, vacummed, dusted, and cloroxed wherever possible on a daily basis and its never enough for him! It's become a little overwhelming for me.
I also understand the whole living together for the first time its our first too. I dormed for most of college and DH had his own apartment at his parents, but we never lived together.
Everything else is just peachy as well!!
some people say I shouldnt complain but sometimes i want to be like who is the girl in this relationship.... its my job ! Just protect me and stop talking.. heheh
I get it cus sometimes I tell people DH was the bride I am the groom. At the last minute I decided I didn't want chair covers at our reception and DH really wanted them and was like no way no how! I was like ssheesh FINE! In the end he finally agreed with me that it would make the room look different with our CPs and I got my way!
with men like ours we need to pick our battles
I've learned to just do this with him in the past few months:
ant n tilde
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DH and I moved in together in January after ten years together too!
I just love going to sleep together and waking up together. I love when we both wake up at the same time in the middle of the night - have a convversation - then go right back to sleep!!!! That is my favorite thing.
What do I like the least? When we argue I have nowhere to go and I don't have real doors -just those accordian doors so I cant even slam the dor and get away from him!
Also, I would like to refer you all to 'Exhibit A' please make note of the HORNS on my LIVING ROOM WALL.
del Rio
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DH and I moved in together in January after ten years together too!
I just love going to sleep together and waking up together. I love when we both wake up at the same time in the middle of the night - have a convversation - then go right back to sleep!!!! That is my favorite thing.
What do I like the least? When we argue I have nowhere to go and I don't have real doors -just those accordian doors so I cant even slam the dor and get away from him!
Also, I would like to refer you all to 'Exhibit A' please make note of the HORNS on my LIVING ROOM WALL.
Just how you phrased it 'Exhibit A' makes me laugh!! I have my own 'Exhibit A' that I have NOT taken pictures of but if I can find my camera within the next few mins I will def show IT!
Mici n KC
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We been living together for 2 weeks now and I've been unemployed for those 2 weeks. He works really long days and I've been so busy with stuff for the wedding and getting the house in order. The downstairs isn't finished yet, so we watch tv in our office on the futon or in bed, so it doesn't feel homey yet. What I like best about it is we're finally living together! It's been 6.5 years for us so it's exciting. What I don't like is that he leaves his clothes and pjs out! It doesn't take long to put them away!
Mici n KC
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Posted by jessNsteve
Dh and I have now lived together for almost 5 years so I think we are pros.
What I love most about living together is just becoming closer and learning all the things about each other that you would NEVER know if you did not live together.
What I dislike most about us living together is he always somehow has control of the remote control. Thank god for dvr or it would be sports all the time for me lol
what is their obsession with the remote.. I used to joke iwth DH that when we lived togethetr I would have teh remote and sit at the head of the table!!!!
FH has to have it in his hand to fall asleep! I don't understand it! I'm just glad I finally taught him how to use the sleep function on the TV! He still has it in his hand when he falls asleep.
