For the first time..

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 07:20 PM

For the first time..

I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with the planning! We are trying to do our guest list, favors and find a rehearsal dinner location and I am feeling the stress! I just don't want to hurt anybody's feelings at work if i dont invite them! man this is tough!

gina409 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 07:21 PM

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take a deep beath and relax..i know its hard and the stress can be so much but try to map it out one thing at a time..u will get it all done

CAM1223 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 07:45 PM

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The one thing i have learned while doing my guest list, is you have to draw the line somewhere. The only people you should make happy is you and your FH.

I had such a hard time with cutting people. But believe me, if you keep in mind that this YOUR day, you will be fine.

VickiR510 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 08:22 PM

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oh i hear ya. my suggestion if you dont invite anyone from work no-one could be offended. We both didnt invite work people. It makes it easier & we had a huge guest list already. Good Luck

flairforfashion Posted: Dec 27, 2008 08:23 PM

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Posted by gina409

take a deep beath and relax..i know its hard and the stress can be so much but try to map it out one thing at a time..u will get it all done

ITA. Hang in there girl. And don't feel bad about not inviting people from work- I am sure they'll understand.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 08:47 PM

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Posted by VickiR510

oh i hear ya. my suggestion if you dont invite anyone from work no-one could be offended. We both didnt invite work people. It makes it easier & we had a huge guest list already. Good Luck

well i have a lot of friends that i hang out with on a regular basis from my teaching job and the people at the bridal store have been amazing to me in planning so its not really right to not invite them ya know? I do understand what you mean though!

jennaandguy09 Posted: Dec 27, 2008 10:44 PM

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It happens to all of us, take one night, don't even think about the planning and then go back to it, everything will come together, it gets VERY overwhelming at times, but don't worry!!