For the guest who doesn't RSVP!

Jayla127 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:42 AM

For the guest who doesn't RSVP!

How will you handle a guest who doesn't RSVP but shows up at the wedding.

Will you accommodate them? Or will you send them on their way?

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:45 AM

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sit them with the vendors JK......

prob just find a table with some room and put them there.

I'm hoping this doesnt happen

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:53 AM

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wow... i mean do people really do that... the ones that dont respond... i will get word someone to find out what they are doing

shopaholic07 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:55 AM

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If someone didn't RSVP, you should call them and get a verbal response from them. That way, there are no suprises on your wedding day.

INNbride4409 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:55 AM

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I would think I would call all the no responders before the wedding and get a number before they just show up.

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:57 AM

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Posted by shopaholic07

If someone didn't RSVP, you should call them and get a verbal response from them. That way, there are no suprises on your wedding day.

I plan on doing this too. I have to know who's coming and who's not and I will probably be on the phone a lot.

NickandTara426 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:05 AM

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Posted by flairforfashion

Posted by shopaholic07

If someone didn't RSVP, you should call them and get a verbal response from them. That way, there are no suprises on your wedding day.

I plan on doing this too. I have to know who's coming and who's not and I will probably be on the phone a lot.

I agree I have heard so many people don't RSVP so I'm not taking any chances I would call!

little34 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:07 AM

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I will try to call the guests who do not RSVP but even if that doesn't work I don't think I will accomodate them... I wouldn't want to anyway...LOL

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:08 AM

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I plan on having a family call those who havenotRSVP'd so i hope i can eliminate anythign atthe actual wedding. if they someone just shows up like a no that changed to yes without infoming us then i guess i seatthem with the dj! hahahahahaha

Dr Meg Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:10 AM

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I know I will have people who won't RSVP it already annoys me. I had it happen for our e-party. I will call people from my side and will make FH call people from his side. But if we don't get a verbal response either I WILL NOT accommodate them the day of the wedding-I don't care who they are. If they couldn't care enough to RSVP then I really don't need them at my wedding.

fabulousmady Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:18 AM

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i plan on calling everyone who doesnt rsvp. i prefer not to have any surprises the day of the wedding.

MrsInglima Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:22 AM

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That won't happen because I'm too OCD. I am calling every single person and hounding them until I get an RSVP.

JJC Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:23 AM

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Posted by shopaholic07

If someone didn't RSVP, you should call them and get a verbal response from them. That way, there are no suprises on your wedding day.

yep...i agree...I am crazy about rsvp's when just throwing a bbq let alone a wedding!

FutureMrsG Posted: Jul 16, 2008 11:05 AM

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Posted by shopaholic07

If someone didn't RSVP, you should call them and get a verbal response from them. That way, there are no suprises on your wedding day.

This is what I plan to do. I do not want any added stress on my wedding day.

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Jul 16, 2008 12:01 PM

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Im going to call those who dont RSVP, but if I had someone show up, I will act like I dont know who they are b/c they didnt RSVP!

kgicrls Posted: Jul 16, 2008 12:06 PM

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how could someone do that?

PoppedInASnap Posted: Jul 16, 2008 01:14 PM

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Ive decided that for a guest that doesnt RSVP I will be making a 'IM sorry you cant make it to the reception but please feel free to try to make it to the church' card
We have a VERY small number of people so if they dont rsvp by the right date their place will be filled up..

PoppedInASnap Posted: Jul 16, 2008 01:15 PM

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OOoo i read it wrong
If someone didnt rsvp, there will be no where for them to sit so maybe ill ask for a folding chair?

I have some bratty friends who may do something like that