but how many are reaching their sexual peak. Im getting ready to turn 30 in March and boy I think Im almost there. I haven't been a big on sex but things are changing for me lately.
Sorry if Im getting personal.
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Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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I'll let you know after I'm married, since we're waiting til marriage... But, on the other hand...I CAN'T WAIT!!! AAAHHH!!! NOT easy waiting til marriage!!! I know it will be worth it, but man it's not easy!!! I've always had a high drive...can't wait to be able to release that with FH!! Sorry if that was TMI!!!
Hey you I had doubts also. This is so scrary that we have the same dress with the same problems. And then it happened I tried it on because you know I told you the dress is in right. So I love it. Dont worry you are going to look fabolous in it. It is a unique dress and also I showed two people the dress and their reaction was like OMG this dress is amazing so that is the reaction we will get when we walk down the ailse. As for my BM dresses I did pick them out. I just wanted something simple I was told that is the way to go and it all about the bride these are my dresses. dress one is MOH and dress two is for BM the color is going to be coral trimmed in white. The MOH dress is the same as BM in the front the back is just different with the train and all. Im am happy with the choice and the girls like it. We are ording first weekend in Feb when they all come up.
well your FH is a lucky man than but i dunno if i reached my 'peak' im only 22
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I'll let you know after I'm married, since we're waiting til marriage... But, on the other hand...I CAN'T WAIT!!! AAAHHH!!! NOT easy waiting til marriage!!! I know it will be worth it, but man it's not easy!!! I've always had a high drive...can't wait to be able to release that with FH!! Sorry if that was TMI!!!
Congrats on waiting! Not TMI, just being honest. Does it count that it's been 2 months and I'm trying to go without till the wedding?
Exactly what I was trying to do. Got to 3mths...and well...I couldnt take it anymore. Lol...but Imma start over..I mean I still have 6mths till my wedding
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I'll let you know after I'm married, since we're waiting til marriage... But, on the other hand...I CAN'T WAIT!!! AAAHHH!!! NOT easy waiting til marriage!!! I know it will be worth it, but man it's not easy!!! I've always had a high drive...can't wait to be able to release that with FH!! Sorry if that was TMI!!!
Yes Im going to try to be a born again Virgin maybe 3 months till wedding
Congrats on waiting! Not TMI, just being honest. Does it count that it's been 2 months and I'm trying to go without till the wedding?
Exactly what I was trying to do. Got to 3mths...and well...I couldnt take it anymore. Lol...but Imma start over..I mean I still have 6mths till my wedding
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Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands!
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Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands! [/QUOTE
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Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands!
Your wedding night will be amazing, more power to you for waiting, so many people dont these days that sometimes its nice to hear someone say they are waiting. I know I didnt and dont really regret it but wonder what it would be like if I was waiting.
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Posted by mhermanns
Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!! Me too
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands!
Your wedding night will be amazing, more power to you for waiting, so many people dont these days that sometimes its nice to hear someone say they are waiting. I know I didnt and dont really regret it but wonder what it would be like if I was waiting.
Me too
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Posted by mhermanns
Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands!
Your wedding night will be amazing, more power to you for waiting, so many people dont these days that sometimes its nice to hear someone say they are waiting. I know I didnt and dont really regret it but wonder what it would be like if I was waiting.
Thank you!! That really means a lot to me!!! It's true that it's rare nowadays, but there's still some of us left! When it gets closer to that time, though, I'll be posting for help for my first night! I'm not worried about FH, cause I know I'm in good hands, just worried about it hurting so much!!! It will probably take a few days until it gets easier, but I'll still be nervous!!!
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Posted by mhermanns
Oh, and thanks!! Listen, it's all by God's grace!! FH and I couldn't do it without it! Knowing us, without God, we would have done it a looong time ago!! We'll be having LOTS of fun on our wedding night, and all the nights after!!!
Well good for you! Congrats! I sometimes wonder what it would be like...but then I think I am happy I have 'experience' (if that's what you wanna call it....lol) Do you think you will ever wonder what its like to be with someone else? I thought that about my brother and SIL before they got married because they were the sameway, but I guess if you love someone, it doesn't matter. Just asking out of curiosity. Please don't be offended.
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands!
Your wedding night will be amazing, more power to you for waiting, so many people dont these days that sometimes its nice to hear someone say they are waiting. I know I didnt and dont really regret it but wonder what it would be like if I was waiting.
Thank you!! That really means a lot to me!!! It's true that it's rare nowadays, but there's still some of us left! When it gets closer to that time, though, I'll be posting for help for my first night! I'm not worried about FH, cause I know I'm in good hands, just worried about it hurting so much!!! It will probably take a few days until it gets easier, but I'll still be nervous!!!
Let me let you in on a little secret a friend of mine told me back in the day-if you are comfortable and ready it will be fine and enjoyable. Dont try to rush it-since FH is the one with more experience make sure he takes his time with you. You both have been together long enough where you are comfortable with each other, so you should be able to tell him when you are 'ready' to go on with the night. ya know? I cant believe we are talking about this still
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Posted by eeelisas
I'll let you know after I'm married, since we're waiting til marriage... But, on the other hand...I CAN'T WAIT!!! AAAHHH!!! NOT easy waiting til marriage!!! I know it will be worth it, but man it's not easy!!! I've always had a high drive...can't wait to be able to release that with FH!! Sorry if that was TMI!!!
Congrats on waiting! Not TMI, just being honest. Does it count that it's been 2 months and I'm trying to go without till the wedding?
Exactly what I was trying to do. Got to 3mths...and well...I couldnt take it anymore. Lol...but Imma start over..I mean I still have 6mths till my wedding
Funny Fh said we need to break the count and start over since he was not aware of the situation. So I have 10 months but we'll see how long that lasts. Fh has been doing such cute and sexy things that it really is not fair!!!!
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Let me let you in on a little secret a friend of mine told me back in the day-if you are comfortable and ready it will be fine and enjoyable. Dont try to rush it-since FH is the one with more experience make sure he takes his time with you. You both have been together long enough where you are comfortable with each other, so you should be able to tell him when you are 'ready' to go on with the night. ya know? I cant believe we are talking about this still
Well, FH and I have discussed it a little. He's so cute cause he always tells me not to worry, that he'll be really gentle with me and do whatever it takes to make me feel comfortable! He said he knows what he's doing, and will take his time, and make sure I'm ok!!
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands! Well on your wedding night you two will surly be practicing your religion with all that OMGing.
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Let me let you in on a little secret a friend of mine told me back in the day-if you are comfortable and ready it will be fine and enjoyable. Dont try to rush it-since FH is the one with more experience make sure he takes his time with you. You both have been together long enough where you are comfortable with each other, so you should be able to tell him when you are 'ready' to go on with the night. ya know? I cant believe we are talking about this still
Well, FH and I have discussed it a little. He's so cute cause he always tells me not to worry, that he'll be really gentle with me and do whatever it takes to make me feel comfortable! He said he knows what he's doing, and will take his time, and make sure I'm ok!!
aw see thats sweet of him and with you guys waiting Im sure he wants to take it all in
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aw see thats sweet of him and with you guys waiting Im sure he wants to take it all in
In more ways than one!!!!... Did I just say that????
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aw see thats sweet of him and with you guys waiting Im sure he wants to take it all in
In more ways than one!!!!... Did I just say that????
after I posted it I thought the same thing and was like naaaaaah Im not even going to comment on it
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omg hahahah if it goes all in
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Hey I'm not offended at al!! I appreciate your support!! Listen, I said I was waiting, not perfect!! I messed up and did it ONCE with ex, and regretted it. So you could say I have a little experience. It hurt SO much, I couldn't do it again, plus the guilt just about killed me!! SO, when I met FH(who wasn't a Christian at the time, and has experience), he said he always wanted to date someone who was willing to wait. I wanted to make things right again with FH, so we promised God we would wait on everything until marriage. FH became a Christian after he met me, and through our faith in God, God has helped us to wait until marriage. I've been a Christian my whole life, but like I said, I'm human too...oh yeah, and I have a high drive! . FH has experience from his past, so I know I'm in good hands! Well on your wedding night you two will surly be practicing your religion with all that OMGing.
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aw see thats sweet of him and with you guys waiting Im sure he wants to take it all in
In more ways than one!!!!... Did I just say that????
after I posted it I thought the same thing and was like naaaaaah Im not even going to comment on it
