Freaking out-need hugs

Mich0621 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 09:34 PM

Freaking out-need hugs

Wedding is in 25 days and I know everyone has been here, but I feel like I don't have enough hours in the day to do everything that needs to be done.

Besides the packing (we are moving Tuesday and our house is not nearly finished being packed), I feel like my head is going to spin off. I literally have a trial every day. I have fittings, trials, final appointments, etc, etc, and I have to attend mandatory dinners, parties, etc.

My printer is pissing me off (luckily, co-counsel on my trial today was a sweetie and told me that I can come to her office and print the 200 programs I need to print-what an angel!!!)

In addition, my final mani/pedi appointment wound up being at a time when I have to leave for our RD, so now, I have to change that and that means I have to change my eyebrows and waxing appts.

To make matters worse, I have to meet with clients to prep for the massive amount of trials (and of course, this has to be done after work, 1 hour away from my home)...my judge moves at the pace of a special olympic snail and we can't even finish the trials we start and since he off the bench less than a month after my return from work, he is driving me insane. I will literally tear someone's head off if I hear the term 'standards and goals' one more time. HELLO...I have been pushing trials since September, all of the lawyers know I am getting married...***...and now you want to complain? UGH!!!

I need a drink

Thanks for listening

diva7531 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 09:45 PM

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AW first off you have so much on your plate right now! But don't fret you are an amazing woman and a diligent lawyer. Take a deep breathe and a long swig from the glass you are probably contemplating and relax. Just think even if you have hairy legs I am sure FH will still marry you!

Mich0621 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 09:47 PM

Re: Freaking out-need hugs

Posted by diva7531

AW first off you have so much on your plate right now! But don't fret you are an amazing woman and a diligent lawyer. Take a deep breathe and a long swig from the glass you are probably contemplating and relax. Just think even if you have hairy legs I am sure FH will still marry you!

Ryan, only you know how to make me feel better! Thanks a bunch (and after living together for a year, he better not mind!!! )

FDWedding07 Posted: Oct 23, 2007 09:50 PM

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Totaly normal to feel this way close to the wedding. Just remember to ask for help its ok. Everything will still be perfect. I keeped saying I can do it all then in the end I caved in and asked for help it was all good.

jjli1107 Posted: Oct 24, 2007 10:25 AM

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I am right with you. The hotel cancelled rooms on my guest, they are sold out, the dance floor broke, we have appointments every night and then work asked me to go to Denver two days next week, with 10 days left and appointments every night. (not happening). One of our groomsmen isn't getting in until 10 oclock the night before the wedding, so we're crossing fingers that his tux fits, Hang in there!

kitty1224 Posted: Oct 24, 2007 10:47 AM

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I have been were you are right now. Hang in there just a little under 1 month and it will all be over. You will have everything done in time.

HamptonsBride Posted: Oct 24, 2007 11:32 AM

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Hang in there!!!!! The last few weeks just s-u-c-k-e-d for me too! Soooo much to get done, soooo little time...and then everyone pulling you in every direction...my calendar had at least one appt almost every single day...i wanted to cry! Then i turned into psycho bride from hell & a raging lunatic! It's normal...try and take some time to do something fun for yourself!!