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Friday night shower

butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower

Curious for opinions on a friday night bridal shower? Anyone ever been to one?

butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower

No one??

Kroedel87 Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I've never personally been to one, and I'm sure most women wouldn't mind. I know for me, however, I'd be a little annoyed if I had to give up one of my weekend nights for a shower.
ShannonKatie81 Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I went to one on a Saturday night & honestly I was annoyed. I wasn't happy spending mt Saturday night at a bridal shower.

Lisa and Steven Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I've never been to one, I think traditionally a shower is supposed to be a brunch/luncheon. I guess you can have it whenever you want.

larlynn Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I don't think I'd mind. I like the fact that it's different, and I really wouldn't think twice about spending a Friday night with the girls.....I spend Friday nights with my girlfriends all the time!

cets1290 Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I went to one and I thought it was fun- they had belly dancing lessons and stuff lol

sandr325 Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I have never been to one and I would not have a problem. I think it really depends on your guest list. I think the older crowd would be unhappy. You also need to take into account that people work and will either arrive late or leave early.

butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

i agree with everyone... however, I found out (accidently) that my mom planned my shower on a friday night. I don't think I really like the idea, but not quite sure what I ca do about it?! :(

larlynn Posted:

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Posted by butrfly1rm

i agree with everyone... however, I found out (accidently) that my mom planned my shower on a friday night. I don't think I really like the idea, but not quite sure what I ca do about it?! :(



I think you should embrace it cause it sounds like fun. All the important people will be there no matter what and if someone doesn't want to come because that's not how they want to spend their Friday night then you probably don't really want them there anyway!

ETA: I also want to add that even with the older (like our mom's age) guests, I know my mom and her friends would be thrilled to have an excuse for a night out!
butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

Haha that's true- great way of looking at it! Thanks larlynn!

sgf2 Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

Honestly, as long as I am given alcohol and get to participate in shower games when I arrive, I'd go to a Tuesday night shower. I don't think it matters what day or time it is. I don't think there's really anything to be annoyed about. It's 3 hours of one day of one year. No big.

butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

So true!!!!!

Gambigoo Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I'm going to be involved in planning my shower and I'm going to have it on a Friday or Saturday night. I'm having more of a cocktail type party rather than a traditional shower. I'm hoping my friends and family will look at it as a fun night out.

Alyssa M Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I would love the excuse for a night out on a Friday, I think it'll be a lot of fun!

MrsDtoBe Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

I love that idea! Best part to me is that I wouldn't have work the next day. She probably did it on a Friday night thinking you'd have no idea
Alimm729 Posted:

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Posted by sgf2

Honestly, as long as I am given alcohol and get to participate in shower games when I arrive, I'd go to a Tuesday night shower. I don't think it matters what day or time it is. I don't think there's really anything to be annoyed about. It's 3 hours of one day of one year. No big.



THIS!!
butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings

yup, I'm sure she was really trying to throw me off!

Molly29 Posted:

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I wouldn't worry about it!! I attended one on a Saturday night, and it was honestly a great time! I think as long as you make it fun and more like a 'girls night out' it will be fun. The one I went to was Hawaiian-themed and the ladies all had a blast
butrfly1rm Posted:

Friday night shower

Awesome! I'm sure my bridesmaids have some good ideas to make it a fun time

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