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Friday night shower
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 26, 2013 03:05 AM+

Posted: Oct 26, 2013 03:05 AM
Friday night shower
Curious for opinions on a friday night bridal shower? Anyone ever been to one?
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 03:24 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 03:24 AM
Friday night shower
No one??
Kroedel87
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 07:09 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 07:09 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I've never personally been to one, and I'm sure most women wouldn't mind. I know for me, however, I'd be a little annoyed if I had to give up one of my weekend nights for a shower.
ShannonKatie81
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:34 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:34 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I went to one on a Saturday night & honestly I was annoyed. I wasn't happy spending mt Saturday night at a bridal shower.
Lisa and Steven
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:48 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:48 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I've never been to one, I think traditionally a shower is supposed to be a brunch/luncheon. I guess you can have it whenever you want.
larlynn
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 10:06 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 10:06 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I don't think I'd mind. I like the fact that it's different, and I really wouldn't think twice about spending a Friday night with the girls.....I spend Friday nights with my girlfriends all the time!
cets1290
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 11:00 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 11:00 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I went to one and I thought it was fun- they had belly dancing lessons and stuff lol
sandr325
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 11:28 AM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 11:28 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I have never been to one and I would not have a problem. I think it really depends on your guest list. I think the older crowd would be unhappy. You also need to take into account that people work and will either arrive late or leave early.
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:08 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:08 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
i agree with everyone... however, I found out (accidently) that my mom planned my shower on a friday night. I don't think I really like the idea, but not quite sure what I ca do about it?! :(
larlynn
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:23 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:23 PM
Re: Friday night shower
Posted by butrfly1rm
i agree with everyone... however, I found out (accidently) that my mom planned my shower on a friday night. I don't think I really like the idea, but not quite sure what I ca do about it?! :(
I think you should embrace it cause it sounds like fun. All the important people will be there no matter what and if someone doesn't want to come because that's not how they want to spend their Friday night then you probably don't really want them there anyway!
ETA: I also want to add that even with the older (like our mom's age) guests, I know my mom and her friends would be thrilled to have an excuse for a night out!
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:51 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 02:51 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
Haha that's true- great way of looking at it! Thanks larlynn!
sgf2
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 04:20 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 04:20 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
Honestly, as long as I am given alcohol and get to participate in shower games when I arrive, I'd go to a Tuesday night shower. I don't think it matters what day or time it is. I don't think there's really anything to be annoyed about. It's 3 hours of one day of one year. No big.
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 04:27 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 04:27 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
So true!!!!!
Gambigoo
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:23 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:23 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I'm going to be involved in planning my shower and I'm going to have it on a Friday or Saturday night. I'm having more of a cocktail type party rather than a traditional shower. I'm hoping my friends and family will look at it as a fun night out.
Alyssa M
Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:25 PM+

Posted: Oct 27, 2013 08:25 PM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I would love the excuse for a night out on a Friday, I think it'll be a lot of fun!
MrsDtoBe
Posted: Oct 28, 2013 08:51 AM+

Posted: Oct 28, 2013 08:51 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
I love that idea! Best part to me is that I wouldn't have work the next day. She probably did it on a Friday night thinking you'd have no idea
Alimm729
Posted: Oct 28, 2013 10:20 AM+

Posted: Oct 28, 2013 10:20 AM
Re: Friday night shower
Posted by sgf2
Honestly, as long as I am given alcohol and get to participate in shower games when I arrive, I'd go to a Tuesday night shower. I don't think it matters what day or time it is. I don't think there's really anything to be annoyed about. It's 3 hours of one day of one year. No big.
THIS!!
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 28, 2013 11:16 AM+

Posted: Oct 28, 2013 11:16 AM
Friday night shower - Long Island Weddings
yup, I'm sure she was really trying to throw me off!
Molly29
Posted: Oct 28, 2013 01:37 PM+

Posted: Oct 28, 2013 01:37 PM
Re: Friday night shower
I wouldn't worry about it!! I attended one on a Saturday night, and it was honestly a great time! I think as long as you make it fun and more like a 'girls night out' it will be fun. The one I went to was Hawaiian-themed and the ladies all had a blast
butrfly1rm
Posted: Oct 28, 2013 03:14 PM+

Posted: Oct 28, 2013 03:14 PM
Friday night shower
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