So I had breakfast with my MOH and MOH yesterday to talk about the b party. When we were discussing the guest list it came out that one of my close friends told them she will not be coming to the party because she isn't in the wedding and 'why would she?' Really? You came to my engagement party and shower and I freaking support everything you do? REALLY?
I don't consider a lot of people my friends. I have a lot of acquaintances but I only consider a few of them real friends. This hurts
BlushandBashful
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I'm sorry. That's terrible she said that.
merbride
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wow
Im getting Married
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Wow that would hurt coming from someone who is supposed to be a friend..she needs to suck up her stank attiutude and deal with it
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Maybe she is low on funds. A friend of mine only had her bridal party at her b-party because they went away and it was going to be expensive.
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Posted by CantWait2Wed
So I had breakfast with my MOH and MOH yesterday to talk about the b party. When we were discussing the guest list it came out that one of my close friends told them she will not be coming to the party because she isn't in the wedding and 'why would she?' Really? You came to my engagement party and shower and I freaking support everything you do? REALLY?
I don't consider a lot of people my friends. I have a lot of acquaintances but I only consider a few of them real friends. This hurts
Could her feelings be hurt that she wasn't in the bridal party???
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Posted by CantWait2Wed
So I had breakfast with my MOH and MOH yesterday to talk about the b party. When we were discussing the guest list it came out that one of my close friends told them she will not be coming to the party because she isn't in the wedding and 'why would she?' Really? You came to my engagement party and shower and I freaking support everything you do? REALLY?
I don't consider a lot of people my friends. I have a lot of acquaintances but I only consider a few of them real friends. This hurts
Could her feelings be hurt that she wasn't in the bridal party???
ITA...I see how she may feel like this but even so I'd still go and show support and have a great time
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awwww. I am sorry. Maybe she is upset she wasnt in it. i have one friend that i use to be bf with and now she is dating fh best friend. I honestly regret not asking her in the wedding party but none the less she has helped me with a lot and is actually going to b-party and wanted to extend it an extra day!! Talk to her. She could maybe be really hurt and doesnt know how to say it- People react to things differently! Hope everything works out
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I'm sorry! Just because she isn't in the wedding party does mean she should come to celebrate your 'last night out'.
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I would wait to see her reply before you get mad. Some times people say things out of line when they are up set but don't mean it. Your MOH should have kept this to herself.
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I'm sorry! Just because she isn't in the wedding party does mean she should come to celebrate your 'last night out'.
i agree.
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awwww. I am sorry. Maybe she is upset she wasnt in it. i have one friend that i use to be bf with and now she is dating fh best friend. I honestly regret not asking her in the wedding party but none the less she has helped me with a lot and is actually going to b-party and wanted to extend it an extra day!! Talk to her. She could maybe be really hurt and doesnt know how to say it- People react to things differently! Hope everything works out
ITA Talk to her, she may have expected you to ask her to be in the bridal party, and when you didn't, it could've been hurtful because she got her hopes up.
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Maybe she is low on funds. A friend of mine only had her bridal party at her b-party because they went away and it was going to be expensive.
I thought about that but isn't the type to not say if it was a money issue
