Friendly Reminder ( thanks ant n tilde...lol)

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Posted by ItalianBride428

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Posted by Kimbalina

I like to be postive, because i know I have diffrent ideas then some other brides, and I like FEEDBACK no CRITICISM

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exactly, it isnt necessary! everyone has different views on what their ideal wedding is and THAT should be respected.

Sorry to sound like a therapist...lol.

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You're 100% right. Some of my friends are getting married, and I'm even in their bridal party. They are doing things I know I would never do, but I'm supporting them 100%. I know they'll support me 100% if I decide on something they hate or consider tacky! Great post..I read some sometimes and wonder why people are rude...this is a friendly site with advice, not open mich hour!

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by love2plan1

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree. Friends don't let friends drink and type

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that is not true, you let me do it all the time Jessica!!

no but honestly, it is true and if i REALLy dont like something, im more likely to not respond to it

if you have nothing nice to say ..............................

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I agree everyone is different and ppl come on this site because one thing we have in common is that we are getting married and we are excited about it. Now don't get me wrong if I do not like something I will not lie because my mother did not raise a liar.

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remind me to never ask you for your opinion lol JK

see i dont mind people being honest, like hey its just not my style or its not something i would pick for myself or whatever. But to try and be nasty or put me down is uncalled for, its not right to do that to others.

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I had one night of no LIW, what happened? Who put you down? Are you serious????? See what trying to catch up on sleep does! lol

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by love2plan1

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Posted by Snowflake08

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree. Friends don't let friends drink and type

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that is not true, you let me do it all the time Jessica!!

no but honestly, it is true and if i REALLy dont like something, im more likely to not respond to it

if you have nothing nice to say ..............................

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I agree everyone is different and ppl come on this site because one thing we have in common is that we are getting married and we are excited about it. Now don't get me wrong if I do not like something I will not lie because my mother did not raise a liar.

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remind me to never ask you for your opinion lol JK

see i dont mind people being honest, like hey its just not my style or its not something i would pick for myself or whatever. But to try and be nasty or put me down is uncalled for, its not right to do that to others.

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I had one night of no LIW, what happened? Who put you down? Are you serious????? See what trying to catch up on sleep does! lol

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nothing happened, just saying in general

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i love it! haha

i can sound harsh sometimes...but its bc im sarcastic...a lot of things i laugh as i type if i think im funny. sometimes i just say something without a smiley and that can look like im mean

like to the bridal contract i said 'thats a bit psycho..' but i didnt like smiley face it so people dont realize im thinkin thats a bit psycho! but hysterical.

i dunno...u are all right we are damned if we do...damned if we dont...thats why i got rid of my post that week bc i realized that all last week i hardly posted bc of being busy.

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i love it! haha

i can sound harsh sometimes...but its bc im sarcastic...a lot of things i laugh as i type if i think im funny. sometimes i just say something without a smiley and that can look like im mean

like to the bridal contract i said 'thats a bit psycho..' but i didnt like smiley face it so people dont realize im thinkin thats a bit psycho! but hysterical.

i dunno...u are all right we are damned if we do...damned if we dont...thats why i got rid of my post that week bc i realized that all last week i hardly posted bc of being busy.

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i never saw a post and thought you were mean

very well said everyone!!

for a second i thought i missed some drama too! i wasnt on at all last nite b/c we had company at our apartment.... im glad i didnt miss anything lol

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Posted by TM2008

very well said everyone!!

for a second i thought i missed some drama too! i wasnt on at all last nite b/c we had company at our apartment.... im glad i didnt miss anything lol

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LOL, does anyone else wonder what they are missing when they aren't on? A good post... a good tip..a good pic? lol

I agree! We are all different. It would be boring if we all wanted the same thing!!

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i'm joining in the laughter.....

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i love it! haha

i can sound harsh sometimes...but its bc im sarcastic...a lot of things i laugh as i type if i think im funny. sometimes i just say something without a smiley and that can look like im mean

like to the bridal contract i said 'thats a bit psycho..' but i didnt like smiley face it so people dont realize im thinkin thats a bit psycho! but hysterical.

i dunno...u are all right we are damned if we do...damned if we dont...thats why i got rid of my post that week bc i realized that all last week i hardly posted bc of being busy.

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i never saw a post and thought you were mean

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awww thanks!!! sometimes i dont kno if people take me the wrong way...maybe queens girls get my online sarcasm! HAHA

ive seen a few bashings that i was like damnnnn thats efffed up. but thats all!

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i love it! haha

i can sound harsh sometimes...but its bc im sarcastic...a lot of things i laugh as i type if i think im funny. sometimes i just say something without a smiley and that can look like im mean

like to the bridal contract i said 'thats a bit psycho..' but i didnt like smiley face it so people dont realize im thinkin thats a bit psycho! but hysterical.

i dunno...u are all right we are damned if we do...damned if we dont...thats why i got rid of my post that week bc i realized that all last week i hardly posted bc of being busy.

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i never saw a post and thought you were mean

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awww thanks!!! sometimes i dont kno if people take me the wrong way...maybe queens girls get my online sarcasm! HAHA

ive seen a few bashings that i was like damnnnn thats efffed up. but thats all!

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hahaha i feel the same way sometimes, like people might take things the wrong way, maybe it is a queens thing

I read some of the pages and wanted to say isnt this site to post all kinds of opinions good or bad, give advice on things, etc etc If someone tells me they dont like my dress or shoes or what not I can care less, nothing should be taken personal on here

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Posted by MPAS

I read some of the pages and wanted to say isnt this site to post all kinds of opinions good or bad, give advice on things, etc etc If someone tells me they dont like my dress or shoes or what not I can care less, nothing should be taken personal on here

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that i don't mind, if someone doesnt like my dress, flowers or whatever.

But its more about philosophies in life and other choices made about the wedding.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MPAS

I read some of the pages and wanted to say isnt this site to post all kinds of opinions good or bad, give advice on things, etc etc If someone tells me they dont like my dress or shoes or what not I can care less, nothing should be taken personal on here

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that i don't mind, if someone doesnt like my dress, flowers or whatever.

But its more about philosophies in life and other choices made about the wedding.

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ohhhh ok like my choice to break plates etc etc , im just kidding I see what they are saying

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by beachbum05

I hear ya Denise - its all in the way its said.

tactful: 'I honestly liked your previous makeup trial best'
tactless: 'you look like a prostitute'

tactful: 'I think the ivory dress would be better with your skin tone'
tactless: 'You look like cr@p in white.'

tactful: 'I'm not really sure that those colors go together'
tactless: 'the only person who would think that color combo looked good is my blind grandmother'

tactful: 'That is a really unique idea.'
tactless: 'Cage dancers at your reception? What's next?! A stripper pole?!?'

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i love it! haha

i can sound harsh sometimes...but its bc im sarcastic...a lot of things i laugh as i type if i think im funny. sometimes i just say something without a smiley and that can look like im mean

like to the bridal contract i said 'thats a bit psycho..' but i didnt like smiley face it so people dont realize im thinkin thats a bit psycho! but hysterical.

i dunno...u are all right we are damned if we do...damned if we dont...thats why i got rid of my post that week bc i realized that all last week i hardly posted bc of being busy.

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i never saw a post and thought you were mean

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awww thanks!!! sometimes i dont kno if people take me the wrong way...maybe queens girls get my online sarcasm! HAHA

ive seen a few bashings that i was like damnnnn thats efffed up. but thats all!

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hahaha i feel the same way sometimes, like people might take things the wrong way, maybe it is a queens thing

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I really think it is! When I moved after HS to LI, I noticed that girls didn't quite get my sarcasm..they all thought I was opinionated and outspoken...it is just a way of life for us I guess?? lol

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Posted by MPAS

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MPAS

I read some of the pages and wanted to say isnt this site to post all kinds of opinions good or bad, give advice on things, etc etc If someone tells me they dont like my dress or shoes or what not I can care less, nothing should be taken personal on here

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that i don't mind, if someone doesnt like my dress, flowers or whatever.

But its more about philosophies in life and other choices made about the wedding.

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ohhhh ok like my choice to break plates etc etc , im just kidding I see what they are saying

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are u breakin plates?!?! that is awesome!